My twin flame: Age gap & jealousy? Advice needed!

Originally Posted by Ali18

No, what I meant in my original post was that we had been fighting a lot, months ago, but were actually getting along very well now, were rebonding and re getting to know each other after all that fighting left both of us emotionally wounded. I've seen it with my own eyes as well as he's told me about it, he's never seen it as abuse though. I've seen her publically humiliate him, insult him, and she talks up how GREAT she thinks her husband is with him sitting right there, after she's just humiliated him about some small accident he's made. She refuses to accept who he is, degrades and insults him about his appearance (tattoos, piercings he has) all of this in front of other people, including me. He knows I don't like her at all and understands why, he also has acknowledged that he's in a bad situation and needs to get out but can't seem to actually do it, like I've seen in many other abusive relationships. I was wondering... From the moment we started hanging out all of these signs and syncronicities started happening and it was very clear that both of us have a deep love for each other from the beginning, and he's been very hurt in the past pain caused from losing many people he loves, that were very close to him and now he's afraid to show/tell anyone that he loves them because he's afraid they'll leave him right afterwards as in die right afterwards, and I'm positive that he's afraid of what we have, could this fear have chased him into her arms, and basically could he be telling her/about her what he really feels for me, because he's so scared?

Then really you have only once choice – wait around until he sorts himself out. Recognise that he is as he is: he’s putting up with his present situation so there’s something that holds him there - complacency? Not wanting to complicate his situation further? Does he just need an outlet for his emotions that his affair doesn’t satisfy? (I mean, if his affair is as you describe her then emotional expression may be awkward for him.) It doesn’t sound that he’s afraid of what you and he have but that it puts him under pressure to act which he seems unready to do.

Well, you know him as best you can. So only you can stand back and work out what support you can give re the whole situation and what trouble to avoid if he does make a move. Breaking from any relationship can be fraught with emotion and misgivings (as you may gather from many topics here).

They say twin flames are part of your spiritual evolution so you'll be learning a bit about patience.

Good luck.

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[Hawker69]

Originally Posted by Lorelyen

As for 11:11, my clock gives me this sign twice a day but Prince Charming never turns up.

Lorelyen I must say that this is one of the best lines I have seen on these forums. Had to laugh.