Why do I always get the five of cups card when asking about his feelings for me?

[ValVan]

When I asked his feelings for me, one of the cards was five of cups.
When I asked why he ignored me, one of the cards was five of cups.

Why do I always draw that card?

[Psychictiff]

Well, sweetie, speaking strictly as a tarotologist, Acknowledge that he may be pulling away or disconnecting, perhaps feeling overwhelmed. That being said, this is why its not recommended to keep pulling cards with the same inquiry.

[ValVan]

Originally Posted by Psychictiff

Well, sweetie, speaking strictly as a tarotologist, Acknowledge that he may be pulling away or disconnecting, perhaps feeling overwhelmed. That being said, this is why its not recommended to keep pulling cards with the same inquiry.

Ahh no. I don't do it often. But when I did, I always got the five of cups.
For example, I asked why he was ignoring me, and I got the world, five of cups, and the knight of pentacles.

[angelic star]

I don't feel five of cups is a serious disconnect to you here. It might be that he is grieving that he lost something about you, or that you have grown up or moved past somethings, and he feels left behind or disconnected in that sense. That he cannot get something he had lost or cherished back then with you.
I don't see this as without feelings or disconnect from you, but rather not being able to feel the same way or feel you feel the same way, a feeling of loss in a relationships, as one partner changing over the years or things not being of the same nature.

[innerlight]

Originally Posted by ValVan

Ahh no. I don't do it often. But when I did, I always got the five of cups.
For example, I asked why he was ignoring me, and I got the world, five of cups, and the knight of pentacles.

I would say if you are getting the same message, it's a message they want you to hear.

When you look at your three cards there. You have the world, which is about a cycle coming to an end. Completion. And starting new. The five of cups, is about loss, disappointment. Moving on. Pentacles are about working/finances. So could be about working on something, resolving something. Or working on moving forward with something else.

Now you are asking about why he is ignoring you, and this could be about something he is dealing with. That is taking up more time, and away from you. Not necessarily like a split, but other things he is dealing with. Which could push him away while he's dealing with it. If he is trying to deal with it himself type of thing.

[ValVan]

I'm practising tarot, so I pull cards for myself as practice.
And here's something I don't understand.

The question is why I always get the five of cups when asking how he feels towards me or how he feels about me, how how he sees me. I always get this card.
And also there are other Cups cards...

For examples.
How does he see me?
nine of cups, the devil reversed, "five of cups".

Why does he ignore my messages?
The world, "five of cups", knight of pentacles

How he feels towards me
The high priestess reversed, "five of cups", eight of swords reversed

How he think of me.
The sun reversed, ace of cups, "five of cups"

I don't always ask questions about him. But when I do, I always get this card...

I don't really know how to interpret when this card appears....

[ValVan]

Why do I always pull the five of cups when asking questions regarding him？
I'm practising tarot, so I pull cards for myself as practice.
And here's something I don't understand.

The question is why I always get the five of cups when asking how he feels towards me or how he feels about me, how how he sees me. I always get this card.
And also there are other Cups cards...

For examples.
How does he see me?
nine of cups, the devil reversed, "five of cups".

Why does he ignore my messages?
The world, "five of cups", knight of pentacles

How he feels towards me
The high priestess reversed, "five of cups", eight of swords reversed

How he think of me.
The sun reversed, ace of cups, "five of cups"

I don't always ask questions about him. But when I do, I always get this card...

I don't really know how to interpret when this card appears....
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[Inika]

5 of cups is like the 'regret' card.

you could see 'regret' as the keyword when it comes up.

'how he think of me' - rx sun + ace of cups + 5 of cups = burnt by the relationship from such outpour of emotions that has left regrets.

a way of seeing it anyway.

[ValVan]

Originally Posted by Inika

5 of cups is like the 'regret' card.

you could see 'regret' as the keyword when it comes up.

'how he think of me' - rx sun + ace of cups + 5 of cups = burnt by the relationship from such outpour of emotions that has left regrets.

a way of seeing it anyway.

No the question is how he sees me, not his feelings towards me.
I still don't know why I got the 5 of cups when asking questions about how he feels and how he sees me.

How he feels and how he sees me are different questions. But it appears in whatever questions...

[Pandora.]

With the 9 of Cups, the Devil reversed and 5 of Cups, he SEES you as someone who is really happy, and then really depressed, like when someone's taking drugs and are on a high, then they stop taking the drug and go really low. Up and down like a yo-yo.