Why do I get treated like that?

nom. No more questions from me. Thanks.

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Hi Tye

Get Treated like ??

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Elsewhere he seems to have scrapped the prospect of a spiritual path, in which case, 'nuf said.

Could be the answer to his question.

Originally Posted by Lorelyen

Elsewhere he seems to have scrapped the prospect of a spiritual path, in which case, 'nuf said.

Could be the answer to his question.

I sincerely apologise for that error. That'll teach me to look up a profile before I respond.


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So you two people think because I MAy have abandoned my spiritual path that I shouldn't get a reply. That's weird.
I guess open mindedness is something rare.
But...okay.
I have my own beliefs, but I'm not gonna share them here on this thread too much.
This issue is old.
Take care :)

Pardon?

You have replies. Have you put us on "ignore" or something?

But when you say you're done with spirituality (on another thread) it's difficult to know how to reply. Had you intended to leave the forum? In which case a reply may never get to you, so would it be a waste of time? I have only your on-line persona to go by. Thus I reply as best as I can.

No one's expecting you to share more of your beliefs than you're happy with, are they? I can sympathise. I happened to hint at the roots of my spirituality in an explanatory note and it was immediately condemned by a Christian zealot. And no, I'm not a Satanist or anything like that!

But good if the issue is now old for you.
Stay well.
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I am new here. However I am not new to this SC/TF stuff. I've been viewing as a guest for a while before joining the forum, so I've read a few of your posts. You sound alot like my twin did when I first met him, only they are male and I female. I am scorpio, they are leo. My twin was very defensive about his spirituality, like it made him feel vulnerable for showing that part of his beautiful self..& his feelings. I just feel inclined to reply and say some things to you. You are open to your twin, you bare your soul to her and now maybe you feel that your vulnerability has been exploited. I think your twin is not intentionally trying to treat you in a certain way. I think you feel vulnerable. Anothers inability to be loving and intimate towards us isnt anything to do with us. It is their own inability to be open and intimate and honest with themselves. Add that to the whole twin dynamic and it can all get very confusing. Thing is, your twin may feel vulnerable to. I notice when you post a question and you have opened up, you suddenly close down again, wish everyone well and say that is that. I may be wrong but it seems it may mirror the dynamic you are sharing with your twin, openness and then ignoring, and she is mirroring that behaviour to you. Are YOU ignoring you? That is the question. Do not be afraid to share any part of yourself, you are beautiful for having the courage to be open. Do not take it personaly or to heart if your twin closes down on you or beat yourself up with blame. Acknowledge it and see where it mirrors any part within yourself. Love every part of yourself and know that if she is your twin she loves you. You need to take care of yourself & make time for yourself, stop questioning your twins actions of ignoring you. and instead stop ignoring yourself, your own needs - sleep. Often we are angry at our twins treatment of us when really they are only mirroring the treatment we are giving to ourselves.

Warmly, KosmicL.

Originally Posted by KosmicL

I am new here. However I am not new to this SC/TF stuff. I've been viewing as a guest for a while before joining the forum, so I've read a few of your posts. You sound alot like my twin did when I first met him, only they are male and I female. I am scorpio, they are leo. My twin was very defensive about his spirituality, like it made him feel vulnerable for showing that part of his beautiful self..& his feelings. I just feel inclined to reply and say some things to you. You are open to your twin, you bare your soul to her and now maybe you feel that your vulnerability has been exploited. I think your twin is not intentionally trying to treat you in a certain way. I think you feel vulnerable. Anothers inability to be loving and intimate towards us isnt anything to do with us. It is their own inability to be open and intimate and honest with themselves. Add that to the whole twin dynamic and it can all get very confusing. Thing is, your twin may feel vulnerable to. I notice when you post a question and you have opened up, you suddenly close down again, wish everyone well and say that is that. I may be wrong but it seems it may mirror the dynamic you are sharing with your twin, openness and then ignoring, and she is mirroring that behaviour to you. Are YOU ignoring you? That is the question. Do not be afraid to share any part of yourself, you are beautiful for having the courage to be open. Do not take it personaly or to heart if your twin closes down on you or beat yourself up with blame. Acknowledge it and see where it mirrors any part within yourself. Love every part of yourself and know that if she is your twin she loves you. You need to take care of yourself & make time for yourself, stop questioning your twins actions of ignoring you. and instead stop ignoring yourself, your own needs - sleep. Often we are angry at our twins treatment of us when really they are only mirroring the treatment we are giving to ourselves.

Warmly, KosmicL.

Thank you for that beautiful post..

Why do I get ignored by someone I love? If she's straight she shouldn't flirt.
She shouldn't hug me or comfort me.
But she doesn't and she does on purpose.
So why do I get ignored?

Originally Posted by tyeMordecai

Why do I get ignored by someone I love? If she's straight she shouldn't flirt.
She shouldn't hug me or comfort me.
But she doesn't and she does on purpose.
So why do I get ignored?

Perhaps she isn't 100% straight. I believe that no one is 100% straight or 100% gay. I can sympathise with your ache, though. And I'm no one to say "just move on" as if it's that easy. It sounds as if you have yet to try to "rationalise" the situation - no one ever can but people can try. They can meditate on what it is they like and dislike about the person; what they'd do if that person wasn't there, and things. And condition themselves to knowing they can never own someone. It may not work at all. If your love, your passions are so deep that your heart aches at any thought of her, then nothing can be reasoned.

Why she ignores you? Flirts? So difficult questions although if she flirts she isn't totally ignoring you. It sounds almost like a mind-game with her. Ponder on that. Do you have a good friendship with her? Is there a natural give-and-take about it?

At least, while you're away (flight) try to distract yourself. Put some space between her and you.

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