You Create your own Reality .Maybe?

[JustBe]

Originally Posted by hazada guess

I'm no authority but I believe those were the tasks you agreed to carry out once you incarnated.That and with the need for survival once incarnated,ie.....Ego,(which in my thinking is to help with survival),cash etcetera,the various emotions, all that stuff once incarnate,makes up your life in general.
I hope you understand that because I don't.

I’m still confused haha

I suppose I’m trying to ascertain exactly what those tasks are?

[JustBe]

Originally Posted by ameliorate

Wonderfully enlightened post! There needs to be a 'like' button on this forum (with 'thank you' and 'agree' emoticons too)

aren’t you sweet..I appreciate your appreciation.

[vortex]

You Create your own Reality .Maybe?

oh yes your mind creates an illusion of all that is by it beliefs, judgments, truths, extra of all that is

that's one off wounders of being human, we all experience the same thing so differently

you defiantly create you reality by how you choose to judge, create beliefs and truths extra

[FallingLeaves]

Originally Posted by JustBe

I’m still confused haha

I suppose I’m trying to ascertain exactly what those tasks are?

hehe.... but wouldn't they be different for each of us?

[JustBe]

Originally Posted by FallingLeaves

hehe.... but wouldn't they be different for each of us?

I’m more interested in what kind of tasks..

Does he mean..
You came in knowing you’d be a very well known artist? Politician? Priest?

[hazada guess]

Originally Posted by JustBe

I’m still confused haha

I suppose I’m trying to ascertain exactly what those tasks are?

That's just it.We forget usually when we incarnate,(The veil),But we are guided so those tasks can be carried out.

[Native spirit]

I have a hard job believing that we choose our own parents before we are born so I don't believe we choose certain tasks either
I would never have chosen my parents and I have had many hardships in my life so I wouldn't have chosen those either


Namaste

[hazada guess]

Everyone is different,it depends on what your soul wants to do and what lessons it wants to learn.It's different in the Astral so we dont know what we are letting ourselves into.
Regarding parents.not each soul chooses.I chose my mother thinking it was going to be a boy/girlfreind relationship.
This is why the earths population is so diverse,we all have different life plans,some merging with others and we also agree to be enemys etc pre birth to have that experience.

[Miss Hepburn]

Well, I've certainly created mine (my reality)...whether it's falling from a ladder or finding $50 and 100 dollar bills, which I have in my bushes.

Then, one morning out of the blue after decades of some therapy, complaining and prayer to forgive my horrible father
and heal from all that he did to me specifically, not to anyone else....
I was given one of my sudden 'visions' ---
we both were in the life before we come here, (sometimes called the In-between place) -

And there we were discussing that he would be my father, I his daughter, and 'what was going to happen' and the reason why....
And I said, "Ok".

I learned more from his 31 years of emotional abuse than anything in my entire life.

Turns out he was not some ogre - but rather SUCH a friend in my Soul Group he took on the task
of being mean to me from the DAY I was born to his death.

[ameliorate]

Originally Posted by Miss Hepburn

I learned more from his 31 years of emotional abuse than anything in my entire life.
Turns out he was not some ogre - but rather SUCH a friend in my Soul Group he took on the task
of being mean to me from the DAY I was born to his death.

I don't understand this. How can a 'friend' take on the task of being mean to you? Surely there are less prolonged and devastating ways of learning lessons?