How to take decisions

[sunofpeace]

Yes. You said yes or you are going to say yes. Thats because of your past Karmas. You have been dragged into this by your past Karma. I see a doomed ceremony. I wont say anything more..

[muzamilsa]

My decision was yes, but then opinions came in and I got confused... I have been self dependent on taking decisions of my life... nd I think I should go with my decision which is yes... why should I care about others opinion is the answer I get within. I think if intially it was yes I dont have to chnage it on others opinion.


To all, this is about saying yes to a marriage proposal.The issue is girl is basic graduate and it was all fine till my family didnt knew that girls family is not very stable with their financial status..

I think saying no on this ground is not a good thing, I have a good job and lyf.. I think when i give my hand to somebody less fortunate it will definately impact others.

Im not in hurry though I think I will give this some time and take final call...

[muzamilsa]

Originally Posted by sunofpeace

Yes. You said yes or you are going to say yes. Thats because of your past Karmas. You have been dragged into this by your past Karma. I see a doomed ceremony. I wont say anything more..

Hii
I am not sure what are you trying to say? Does it mean yes is not a good option over here?

I havent done anything wrong to somebody in my life.. I dont knw if this is karma but I think this has put me in lot of trouble with my family and it highlighted lot of things which I havent noticed earlier

Thanks

[SaturninePluto]

Originally Posted by muzamilsa

My decision was yes, but then opinions came in and I got confused... I have been self dependent on taking decisions of my life... nd I think I should go with my decision which is yes... why should I care about others opinion is the answer I get within. I think if intially it was yes I dont have to chnage it on others opinion.


To all, this is about saying yes to a marriage proposal.The issue is girl is basic graduate and it was all fine till my family didnt knew that girls family is not very stable with their financial status..

I think saying no on this ground is not a good thing, I have a good job and lyf.. I think when i give my hand to somebody less fortunate it will definately impact others.

Im not in hurry though I think I will give this some time and take final call...

Hi.

I think yes you should make the final decision on your own gut, as this is your choice and no one elses.

And I wish you the best of life and what it has to offer.

May you have a beautiful and long life.

And yes the only opinion that matters on this decision is your own. :)

[virago]

muzamilsa,
Flip a coin and call it. Your feelings concerning the desired outcome will indicate your true feelings of the situation. The actual results don't matter, only what you really wanted to happen. Good luck.

[Hypertiger]

It is not up to you to decide whether you have done something wrong to somebody...It is up to somebody other than you to decide.

Below is a conundrum with a solution

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uEQxe4zvlWk

[Jaroon60]

@Musa

In things like this it is about you and the girl. You know best what you feel and want. I also do not understand what the financial situation of the family of the girl has to do with this. Some decisions you make yourself.....as you did.

[muzamilsa]

Originally Posted by Jaroon60

@Musa

In things like this it is about you and the girl. You know best what you feel and want. I also do not understand what the financial situation of the family of the girl has to do with this. Some decisions you make yourself.....as you did.

Thank you Jaroon, its about having equal social status.. in our country families feom both side look at social status which I think is not appropriate... Girl family is happy with the proposal but to my family they say its not good for me..

Though they are not forcing me to say no, but there is alwys pressure on you..

[muzamilsa]

Originally Posted by virago

muzamilsa,
Flip a coin and call it. Your feelings concerning the desired outcome will indicate your true feelings of the situation. The actual results don't matter, only what you really wanted to happen. Good luck.

I will try this... thank you :)

[slowsnake]

Originally Posted by muzamilsa

Hi All,

I am not looking for an answer but guidance to get to a decision, my dear onces says no and I said yes. Now I have to decide this.

Hello muzamilsa,

Procrastination is a curse brother,I had a mate who could be so indecisive it drove me nuts!

Kind regards Billy.