how do i cut off future contact in the after life and/or with reincarnation?

[FairyCrystal]

I doubt you can do anything about that when coming from a 3D level.
On 3D, so day to day life, you don't know and don't see what you need(ed) on a higher level in order to learn as an individual and as a Soul.
You just like and dislike, or stronger versions of those feelings.

But it can still be done, at the very least requested. I've done so myself with my ex. This was more a cry out from my Soul, not a 3D thing. When you feel that on a higher level, so way above & beyond the mundane disgust, dislike, etc. this person, this Soul, isn't healthy or good for you and you don't ever want to come across them again, you can send that request to spirit.
You can also take it up with the Lords of Karma and ask them for dispensation to meeting them ever again, if this is indeed for the highest good.

That's where things could go wrong, you don't know the highest good. So in that sense you do have to leave it up to Spirit / Lords of Karma to sort it for you.
Bear in mind that this Soul didn't come your way for nothing. And by making sure you never see them again you may have to live for instance 10 **** lives in order to learn what this Soul could teach you in one life, or a few years in that life. Or a few minutes or hours.

Thank you very much, FairyCrystal. yes it may very well be I have limited sight at this point, LOL, but still what frighten me most is that with for one, example, I don't feel his spirit.

I am the first to get tattood on my forehead "Nobody's perfect", with all these others, people who mess things up for you, have defects, or are your triggers (I know now few were sent to give me the same message, the same trigger, as I had failed to see in the past - so now at least that is more clear to me) - those I'm OK with returning.

But when you don't sense someone's spirit, humanity -it's too much and I want that spirit gone and away from me. Not hurt it (although I don't think that would even be possible), just isolate it from me, my future.

You wrote a lot of wise things. Hum...I have to think about this, what to do...the leaving it up to Spirit/lords of Karma to sort it out sounds good too.

[Luciphene]

Originally Posted by asearcher

I want to find a way where I can if a specific soul, spirit show up again cut off future contact in the after life or reincarnation life/lives. How do one do that?

I'm afraid too because I've had a vision of us and I dont want it to come true.

When we met in real life (this life) we had opposite experience of that. This person said never forget it and how special that moment was. I did feel something strong going on but that was my shock over my disgust over this person. Usually I would say two people feel the same way when meeting eachother.

I’m not sure you should meddle. Maybe you have something to learn or share with this person and you both need contact in the future? Spiritual lessons can be uncomfortable!

Do you ever have other visions that come true? If not, I wouldn’t worry about that. I have visions all the time, some come true, most don’t. I think of it as lucky hits by my random brain. It occasionally manages to pick out the likely future by chance.

You know me as someone practical.
So all I can add is that this is down to your beliefs and how you manipulate them. Nothing wrong in believing in former lives or the after-life (indeed I believe in the world of spirit where I belong anyway) but none of us have even the least proof that these exist so I'd guess it's possible to adjust our beliefs. We'll all have to wing it when the time comes anyway.

But as I see it, you have to affirm one way or another to alter your beliefs that it won't happen. Whether you feel the need to go into new age spiritual ideas or not is of course up to you but if this worried me I'd take steps now to minimise it: affirm that it won't happen until I feel confident that it won't; set my beliefs to know I'll deal with it should it crop up; draw symbolic pictures or write out my hopes; try to purge him from my firmament.

Better still, try to make it a non-issue. Review as honestly as you can what the relationship was about. It takes two to make a problem like this and neither are entirely blame free. Were your expectations too high? Did you linger beyond the time when it should have ended? Did he, when you wished you could be shot of him? Did you pander to his expectations thinking it was the right thing to do? Has he simply failed in his responsibilities to you? How much of your 'disgust' is indignation versus him not living up to your expectation? Because if you could let go the issue may not arise.

All this may take a bit of work, mainly contemplation with affirmations that you're going to sort it out.
Good luck.
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[Miss Hepburn]

Originally Posted by asearcher

I know I am in this complaining-mood right now, but it is as if I am
in this car and it keeps going around in circles instead
of going straight forward - where I should be.

Lol, Cosmic Wonder calls it a Round-about...you're not alone.
That reminded me of a couple that came to Dr. Brian Weiss, in "Many Lives, Many Masters' book..
he found out they had been together 52 life times and each life one of them killed the other...
kind of like that Star Trek Repeating Loop episode.
I, myself, know of 3 lifetimes with the same darn character flaw I needed to stop already...I have about 95% this life!

(It's talking about something that bugs me about a person, "He's such a liar"..
and telling that to someone...then the trickster-ego's rationalizing, "But it's true!" But, it's a very bad thing to do!!!!!!! And it
super impedes soul growth - towards the goal of purity!!!!)
Lucky me, seems, I've moved past murdering and marauding in past lives! LOL

[Ziusudra]

Originally Posted by Miss Hepburn

That reminded me of a couple that came to Dr. Brian Weiss, in "Many Lives, Many Masters' book..
he found out they had been together 52 life times and each life one of them killed the other...

Miss H,
I read that book when it first came out so I don't remember every detail; however, I don't remember that particular case.
Maybe it was from another book??

[Miss Hepburn]

Originally Posted by Ziusudra

Miss H,
I read that book when it first came out so I don't remember every detail; however, I don't remember that particular case.
Maybe it was from another book??

Well, I only read that one....20 yrs later read part of another....as in 3 months ago....hahahahaha

[Ziusudra]

Originally Posted by Miss Hepburn

Well, I only read that one....20 yrs later read part of another....as in 3 months ago....hahahahaha

I better read that part. I am curious how the couple refrain from their "kill" karma.

So am I ;)

Again, thank you everyone for writing here, helping me.

Just curious - am I the only one who is meeting up with one narcissist, psychopath after another? They are not suppose to be that many anyhow. I mean a specific type - do you meet up with the same type over and over? Does not have to be the same spirit, but in the same life? Where do they all come from? Even during the pandemic, when they should be spread out more? It's getting ridiculous.

I think I can read the warning flags by now and so to me there is no mutual attraction (not saying it has to be the romantic kind), but the other ones don't get that, so they still come after. Even if I am very rude - it's like - no reaction. I've had this before, that if someone just held on tight enough long enough one would give in, but that's not the solution, now is it, to true connection.

however, I do love reading all your words on this topic anyhows, gives me comfort

[Miss Hepburn]

Originally Posted by Ziusudra

I better read that part. I am curious how the couple refrain from their "kill" karma.

It seems there is a phenomenon the Doc discovered...once exposed to the memories from the past*, the patient
is no longer troubled with the issue!
Voila, the phobia, the pattern goes away!!! Truly weird, to me. I mean how? Why?

*Past life regression with a prof hypno-therapist.