Losing the energy during separation

TheFlameAbides · #1 24-08-2015, 11:46 PM

In the bubble love phase, and for some time after, I was vibrating at a high level. I was feeling great and manifesting things easily.

It's been 6 months since last physical contact with her and I have felt the energy progressively weaken. I can see it manifesting low vibration results and darker energy. I feel less confident and things aren't going as well at work.

I've been meditating (and have been long before meeting TF) and trying to do things to clear my energy (even tried salt water bath), but it feels like a continued slide downwards in terms of my energy/vibration.

How do I keep that TF-energy present in separation? I can't figure out how to reactivate that energy without a dose of her physical presence?

TheFlameAbides · #2 26-08-2015, 01:27 AM

No responses or thoughts? OK.

Kiwigirl11 · #3 26-08-2015, 02:38 AM

Once you come out of that bubble love phase ,it's only natural to feel like you are on a downwards spiral ,or that the energy is bad etc ..The way i see it is once you come down ,you are shown what needs to be worked on before you can reconnect again...It's not bad energy ,just issues that need attention ....Sounds like you are doing the right things ,like meditating etc ,keep doing them ...Also i know myself ,even though the bubble love phase is magical ,it's also not practical ,i go into lala land ,i forget everyday things ....I used to hate the feeling of comming down from the bubble love phase but now i enjoy it , i don't worry about it .....I think of it like a soulconnection holiday ,where i can just focus on here and now and work on me ....Think of it like this ,if you were to stay in that bubble love phase ,would you do any work ? .. I know i wouldn't ...Remember this is a process ,one with many ups ands downs and twists and turns ..All the best kiwi x

Kiwigirl11 · #4 26-08-2015, 02:46 AM

Just to add ,the first time i lost contact with my SC it was for 9 months ,i thought the energy had gone and i would never hear from him again ....I did and i noticed the energy had grown stronger ... Then the next time we had no contact for over a year ,once again i thought the energy had gone for good ,only for him to reconnect and the energy is stronger still, the energy just lies dormant until the next reconnect, thats the way i see i now ...I still don't know all the answers ,this whole SC thing really still has me baffled most days but i am starting to see a patern and a process to this whole thing ...I don't know the outcome but im ok with not
Knowing now.

TheFlameAbides · #5 26-08-2015, 06:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Kiwigirl11

Just to add ,the first time i lost contact with my SC it was for 9 months ,i thought the energy had gone and i would never hear from him again ....I did and i noticed the energy had grown stronger ... Then the next time we had no contact for over a year ,once again i thought the energy had gone for good ,only for him to reconnect and the energy is stronger still, the energy just lies dormant until the next reconnect, thats the way i see i now ...I still don't know all the answers ,this whole SC thing really still has me baffled most days but i am starting to see a patern and a process to this whole thing ...I don't know the outcome but im ok with not
Knowing now.

Thank you so much for sharing. The energy didn't disappear overnight after the bubble love phase, so much as I've felt it dissipate slowly over the past 6 months.

To be clear, the bubble love phase lasted about 5 weeks, then she ran. Didn't see or hear from her for 3 months, got together for one pretty magical day which infused me with great energy and high vibrations and haven't seen her for 6 months now.

As much as I want to see her, I want to find the energy as it was helping me manifest things professionally and otherwise.

Laulau79 · #6 26-08-2015, 09:31 PM

I find the bond /connection comes and goes. I'm still in love but we are at that comfortable stage now as opposed to the being smitten bit. I think with love ( soulmate connection or just relationships) it's about the ebbs and tides. For us life does get in the way. Work, kids, emotional baggage, time etc
But.. We are never seperated too long and boom it does return
I think the key is always to find yourself and your own happiness tbh

Kiwigirl11 · #7 26-08-2015, 09:42 PM

As you get further along your path ,it does become easier to hold that amazing energy longer ,even if your tf hasn't returned but it does come and go,working on yourself is the key ,plus remaining positive .....personally even though the bubble love phase is amazing,I find it exhausting ,I think if we were to stay in that energy we would end up burning out ..I personally don't think our physical bodies can handle staying there .

Kupava · #8 04-09-2015, 04:36 AM

I know exactly how you feel energy between me and tf has vanished due to various reasons (psychic attacks etc) I feel totally at a low ebb now ,I can't pick up much from him,I feel so flat because of that.But I agree the state I was in before with him was so high energy I couldn't concentrate on anything but I felt so alive and everything seemed brilliant.

able12 · #9 04-09-2015, 12:59 PM

Even if it takes decades, it will come back into full consciousness, but even during the separation, there is still a knowing right on the edge of awareness. I have spent the last 3 years seesawing between the purest love and doubt--the opening and closing of my heart. I didn't want it--I never wanted this connection, it just was from the start and still is. You think you have a choice but you really don't--it just is. It seems like such a simple thing, but it is a monumental struggle to accept, and then one day you just do, in whatever form it presents itself at any given time. You have to learn this lesson many times. At least that is where I always spin my wheels--is this real? And despite the evidence--I still don't believe it..it is magic.
I tried to hate mine, to build a case against him, block him, to judge him in the harshest terms. Ultimately it was useless, because there is some part of myself--call it the soul, I don't know, that experiences the most beautiful, again, I don't know what you would call it--joy? elation? bliss? with them. It is like the complete unguarded happiness of a child. It soars. And that part is always there, always, along with the doubt and the fear and the rational arguments that this is some kind of delusion... But it is scary and it is hard, reaching the balance is hard, and integrating the new reality is challenging and sometimes you are just not ready. Sometimes it is just so much easier to live a conventional life of security and socially accepted norms.
But it perseveres despite you best efforts to sever the energy. With every other breath I hear, "Can we talk, can we please talk?"--or the endless apologies.. and I really want to be free and close off my heart and live my completely content normal life, but there it is.
There has been a lot of magic on this ride--I can barely get my mind around it and I wonder if other connections have this underlying reality operating just beside the "real world"? Ultimately you just surrender to it despite all the real world road blocks and insurmountable doubts and fears that it a delusion or some kind of fluke. It just is. You always come back to that same place.

#10 04-09-2015, 02:53 PM

Well it has been 7 years and 9 months since my twin flame and I went seperate ways, the energy hasn't been there for a little over a year. At first, it was really frustrating and I tried to gain it back, in the wrong way thinking it was like an energy that was between both of us.. Didn't work at all. I guess, we can't force these things. What you can do is recreate that same high level energy through and in yourself. I did it by unblocking my chakras, meditation, and therapy..

and all it is, is bring more love into yourself, when you have love and love yourself and others, you feel lighter and lighter. :)