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13-04-2017, 07:05 PM
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Seeker
Join Date: Apr 2017
Posts: 35
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Spiritual Bypass?
Hi everyone.
I posted my story here (it won't let me post the direct URL)
spiritualforums dot com/vb/showthread.php?t=112551
Today was the first time I came across the idea of "spiritual bypass" and a lot of it sounds VERY similar to what my wife is dealing with.
Any thoughts/feedback are welcomed.
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19-04-2017, 08:35 AM
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Master
Join Date: Jan 2011
Location: Canada
Posts: 7,720
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Hi fieldingmellish. The only thing I would warn against is intellectualizing and generalizing as you scramble to make sense of your situation. We tend to overthink things, especially when worried and stressed. The only reality here that matters: whatever she's doing and feeling, is what she's doing and feeling. This is her life and her thing. What you want to make of it in your mind, doesn't change any of it for her.
Free free, set them free. If you love her, honor her actions by respecting them as authentic, for her. Don't dishonor her reality by psychoanalyzing and demeaning what she is doing. Apparently for her, this is real and important. Give her that. Let it be hers. Focus on you instead; on what you want, and plan to do now.
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