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02-08-2016, 06:24 AM
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Knower
Join Date: Oct 2010
Posts: 215
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Difficult situation
Hi All,
I am in a relationship with a girl and willing to marry her, but his brother is the obstacle over here.
My family spoke to her brother and even I pinged him, he said he will revert back with the answer on yes or no, on the marriage proposal.
Yet he didn't have a word on yes or no.
Girl said his brother is not willing to send her far to the other state.
I live in other state which is around 1500 km from her's.
I was just worried about what will happen next ?...
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02-08-2016, 07:51 AM
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Pathfinder
Join Date: Jul 2016
Location: UK
Posts: 61
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Why is it anything to do with her brother whether you get married or not? Does she have a say in the matter? Is this a religious issue?
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02-08-2016, 09:01 AM
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I'm not sure what you mean. You speak of a girl and "his" brother.
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I am in a relationship with a girl and willing to marry her, but his brother is the obstacle over here.
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02-08-2016, 09:54 AM
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Knower
Join Date: Oct 2010
Posts: 215
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In our tradition we need consent of the family to get married, girls cant make independent decisions ... :(
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06-08-2016, 01:33 AM
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Deactivated Account
Join Date: Feb 2016
Posts: 837
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Cultural binds
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Originally Posted by muzamilsa
In our tradition we need consent of the family to get married, girls cant make independent decisions ... :(
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Sorry. Looks like you're stuck.
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02-08-2016, 10:06 AM
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Master
Join Date: Apr 2016
Location: Pretoria South Africa
Posts: 19,523
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That is a tricky situation then...
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02-08-2016, 11:35 AM
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Knower
Join Date: Oct 2010
Posts: 215
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Yes and he is the elder brother which I forgot to mention.
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03-08-2016, 08:57 AM
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Sounds like you're dealing with deeply rooted cultural traditions. To find out what happens next, have a look at as many similar cases as you can.
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04-08-2016, 11:06 PM
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Knower
Join Date: Oct 2010
Posts: 215
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I am starting to give up, her brother said no I tried my level best.
Now girl is reluctant to go against family so I am not sure... But she wants to talk even aftr this...
I said I dont want to talk to her... But couldnt help talking to her....
My best friend advised me to leave itt...he said if the girl really wants you then she will take steps...
So now I wont do anything which undermine my self worth in her family..
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05-08-2016, 07:27 AM
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Master
Join Date: Jul 2016
Location: Aotearoa
Posts: 1,183
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Quote:
Originally Posted by muzamilsa
I am starting to give up, her brother said no I tried my level best.
Now girl is reluctant to go against family so I am not sure... But she wants to talk even aftr this...
I said I dont want to talk to her... But couldnt help talking to her....
My best friend advised me to leave itt...he said if the girl really wants you then she will take steps...
So now I wont do anything which undermine my self worth in her family..
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At least you can keep in contact with her. I wonder if the brother said no because you might be taking her away from her family. It would be hard for us to give an informed answer to this since we don't know all the details. Have you asked the brother why he said no? Are they Samoa?
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