not having a girlfriend bi or gay

supersaiyan5 · #1 01-12-2014, 01:18 AM

i tend to be sensitive just a little bit while talking to girls, but i act normal while im around guys that does not mean i like guys...i really do want to be with a girl. however someone recommended me a book called The Presence Process.. also i tend to watch mainly only action shows/movies and not so much on romantic/ or chick flick movies...I mainly tend to be sensitive while watching movies/shows...

spinmaster · #2 01-12-2014, 04:15 AM

Hey supersaiyan5. This actually sounds kinda like what I'm going through. I don't think that you're necessarily gay or bi, you just tend to relate better to . your own gender. Also, there is a lot of tension between the sexes nowadays, so I would say to just take it slow and get to know what ever woman you're trying to date and then be upfront about the kind of relationship you want after you become close friends with her, if it doesn't work, try again with someone else.

MysticalShaman · #3 01-12-2014, 02:57 PM

Also, about the watching films thing.
Don't worry about it.
You have both a masculine and feminine aspect within you.
You are going to like all sorts of different things, on different spectrums. Like there's a really heavy motorcycle guy on tv who's made up to be this tough dude, but his job is to mind cats(!). So try not to be thinking "if I act like this I must be that then". Just do whatever feels right and don't give two hoots about how to do it, just go with the flow! And remember no one else cars, what matters is as long as it's what YOU wanna do :)