How to become a warmer person

Originally Posted by Mayflow

Patience is a good wish. From my experience, what one wishes for for others, one gains for oneself. Pretty world, isn't it?

I was just thinking something similar this morning. I also find that people who criticize others for a negative trait usually are that way themselves.

[fire]

A knee-jerk response of rejection or distancing would seem to indicate a psychological imbalance. It could originate from your childhood, perhaps by an unfulfilling parental relationship.

Something practical you can do about this is to look up a video on YouTube titled "The Pulse Technique" by Deb Cummings, and address this issue with that. The video features an energy transmission that will target any undesired experience of your focus, to progressively clear all aspects of it and permanently eliminate the root cause.

Write down a list of any particular experiences and memories about the issue that bothers you, and play back the energy transmission one time for each item. As the energy is working within you to clear the issue, you should begin to feel lighter about the subject over time. In this particular case, I would expect you to eventually be able to notice a gradual change in the way you respond to people. Just be patient and allow the energy to eliminate that which is presently covering up your true self, so that your love may clearly shine into this world.

Originally Posted by fire

A knee-jerk response of rejection or distancing would seem to indicate a psychological imbalance. It could originate from your childhood, perhaps by an unfulfilling parental relationship.

Something practical you can do about this is to look up a video on YouTube titled "The Pulse Technique" by Deb Cummings, and address this issue with that. The video features an energy transmission that will target any undesired experience of your focus, to progressively clear all aspects of it and permanently eliminate the root cause.

Write down a list of any particular experiences and memories about the issue that bothers you, and play back the energy transmission one time for each item. As the energy is working within you to clear the issue, you should begin to feel lighter about the subject over time. In this particular case, I would expect you to eventually be able to notice a gradual change in the way you respond to people. Just be patient and allow the energy to eliminate that which is presently covering up your true self, so that your love may clearly shine into this world.

Thank you Fire. That sounds very unique. I will look at some videos tonight.

[Belle]

Very late to this question.

You can only love others truly as much as you love yourself.

Originally Posted by Tera's_Party

I was just thinking something similar this morning. I also find that people who criticize others for a negative trait usually are that way themselves.

This is so true, also if they accuse you of something, I won't go into details.



You are right too Belle.

[knightofalbion]

Try to practice kindness to all.

The harder and more often you try the more instinctive it becomes.

Practice becomes habit.

Habit becomes character.

(Positive) Character leads you forward.