having problems with astral projection need help

[Storm3]

Ive been meditating for just under five years now in hopes to astral project.. I get frustrated from time to time because its not happened, at least not that I recall and I would like to recall. My husband is very in tune and doesn't have so much problems getting there now. He shares the experienced with me that his spirit guide allows him to & it makes me happy for him but also frustrates me more. He told me it was never east for him at first and took him about three years. Ive described the feelings I have went through when meditation for the purposes of astral projection but find it just either gets too painful or I fall asleep. I will share this process with you: It starts with a sort of vibration or shaking at my feet, I concentrate to relax my limbs and build that vibration up my body slowly.. As this happens my body begins to go numb to where i can hardly feel it (like sleep paralysis) , I concentrate on my breath and my third eye. This is where something goes wrong, at least i think.... My body gets really uncomfortable with cramping and pain comes over my body and its pretty painful and very uncomfortable... My third eye feels like someone is drilling through it. At this point I either wuss out or fall asleep even when its painful i know I'm weird haha. A lot of times my ear rings in this process and i couldn't move it i tried. I would really like to achieve astral projection this year i would love some input , anything may help. -kstaar