physical life and spiritual life. keeping them separate or not?

I dont know if this is the right category to start thid thread but I will go ahead.

I needed your opinion on spiritual life and physical life, whether one should keep these both lives separate or as one with close ones.

Let's say you establish a spiritual connection with someone special but you guys have not met in like a decade or so. You guys talk to each other through telepathy and even have sex spiritually with telepathy.

But in the real word, physical word, ypu guys have no communication and dont know each other at all.

In the spiritual life, you guys decide to meet up, decide a location and share your contact details.


Would you guys keep the spiritual life and physical life separate? For instance, what if the person you are talking with in the spiritual life is not the real person in the physical life?

I have been talking to my childhood friend spiritually and want to see her. I guess I dont know if she really exits. A shrink told me we would get reunited and marry. I dont know how to carry this spiritual life into our physical life and meet up and see how good we really are and if we get along well...

I did go last year to find her in her country but I never found her. Perhaps it wasnt right timing but, I guess I am stuck between moving on or still continue talking to her and try to go to find her again.

I guess a lot on my mind.