Cheating but not actually cheating

Okay so I've been speaking to another guy, we want to meet up and plan to maybe go to India - I've known him for a while and he's a cool guy...

However, I feel like I am cheating on my TF - even though my TF and I split up about a month ago - even though we've been in contact every day since and still talks about our feelings etc....support each other...

I feel really kinda bad and naughty everytime I speak to this other guy?

Also, I don't think my TF is doing it as he hates being on the internet as it is but can't help but think he's started to speak to others as well, even though when I get a message from him I direct my focus on our convo more instead....

Prob being paranoid?!?!

Originally Posted by stephanie79

Prob being paranoid?!?!

Sounds like a self esteem issue ...
Female conditioning during the formative years ...
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yes!
i think you're right, i've always had a bit of a prob with self-esteem until just about six months before i met my TF and then he upped the self esteem from the root and made me see that i am beautiful!
i feel pretty mean because me and tf werent good for a few days and i spoke to this other guy now me and tf are okay and i dont really want to speak to the other guy that much...gawdddd

[airydoug]

Once a Twin Flame connection is activated you'll always feel like you're cheating on TF. There's no escaping it. Rofl! It's TF dependency, it's fact like the air we breathe, forever connected. Literally connected by a soul chord. Other half of our soul, whatever way you interpret it.

[spiralfungi]

go and have fun!
it's all in your head.