Love, Connection, Burdens and Jealousy

[White Transmigration]

Love is a powerful connection to other relationships with family, friends, relatives and girlfriends/boyfriends.

If you had someone you loved as a friend or family but they were already in relationship, but you feel jealous and resentful of love and dating.

How do you explain this response and internal feelings that burden you, if you were single or looking for someone?

How do you stop feeling like that and control the jealousy, envy, loneliness, lust or the resentful feelings that are associated with it, even you are overthinking about it, have deep desire to love someone and go for a date?

For a start, I believe enriching the soul is a start, anymore suggestions and other interesting ideas? Thank you!

You apply some self-discipline and leave it alone. You don't have to explain any response other than question your own selfishness, a readiness to upset an existing relationship in the hope of fulfilling your own desires unconcerned that the situation might backfire.

You stop yourself by distraction. Find a different prospect, devote yourself to a hobby or something. Jealousy, when you assume you have a right to someone, is a dangerous emotion, particularly to your self-confidence. You can never own another person so jealousy is futile. It's one of those "emotions" that people need to purge.

You're male, I'd guess. You know what to do about the lust.

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[Maguru]

Originally Posted by White Transmigration

Love is a powerful connection to other relationships with family, friends, relatives and girlfriends/boyfriends.

If you had someone you loved as a friend or family but they were already in relationship, but you feel jealous and resentful of love and dating.

How do you explain this response and internal feelings that burden you, if you were single or looking for someone?

How do you stop feeling like that and control the jealousy, envy, loneliness, lust or the resentful feelings that are associated with it, even you are overthinking about it, have deep desire to love someone and go for a date?

For a start, I believe enriching the soul is a start, anymore suggestions and other interesting ideas? Thank you!

When I experienced jealousy, I realised that I was not accepting of others rights to make their own choices. I then changed my perspective to "there is enough love to go round'. I believe it to be true and don't 'suffer' jealously in my life.

Jealousy is quite often is a result of insecurity.

[joyfirst]

Originally Posted by Maguru

Jealousy is quite often is a result of insecurity.

Always. Insecurity based on lack mindset. Attachment always is based on belief, that we can't be happy, unless this or that will happen. When happiness is something we choose, something we connect to inside of us and has not much to do with our circumstances. Otherwise every person in the same circumstances would feel the same.
Enjoy and let go. Surrender and relax. When we live trying to please others, and others-us, then nobody is really living their path and everyone is resentful.

[jimrich]

Originally Posted by White Transmigration

If you had someone you loved as a friend or family but they were already in relationship, but you feel jealous and resentful of love and dating. How do you explain this response and internal feelings that burden you, if you were single or looking for someone?

Jealousy is ALWAYS about insecurity, low self worth and bad self esteem. You don't love or like your self so you become jealous (angry) if and when others have or find love.

How do you stop feeling like that and control the jealousy, envy, loneliness, lust or the resentful feelings that are associated with it, even you are overthinking about it, have deep desire to love someone and go for a date?

I would google self respect, self worth, self esteem, confidence to get started improving and/or repairing your inadequate, insecure and unhappy feelings and beliefs that are making you insecure, angry and jealous.

For a start, I believe enriching the soul is a start, anymore suggestions and other interesting ideas? Thank you!

That's a good way to begin. good luck.