Greetings Becky:
I have been a student of the Tarot for 32 years and find that--asking a direct question can help you to focus and bring a clear message home.
The Star indicates that you should be certain that all parties involved in the situation (including yourself) are giving as much as they are taking.
She is the Card of reciprocation.
Just out of curiosity...you wouldn't happen to have two guys in your life right now--would you?
One older, perhaps darker--who is generous and financially stable?
One younger, perhaps fairer--who tends to be studious and a bit ambitious?
Try asking a direct question and you should get a much clearer picture.