Loving my higher self

[BarbaraT]

Hi lovely people
Last night before sleep I asked my higher self to show me how I can forgive my partner in the dream, and let my super-consciousness be closer to my everyday life.
I had a dream that I was in Italy, in some beautiful cafe, next to a beautiful church building, next to it was the sea (normal water, normal waves, ordinary sea color). I fell in love at the first sight with a man who was older than me, who made the most delicious coffee in my life (I drank a lot, 3 cups). He also returned the feeling. I felt how it is to be in love. It was a very beautiful feeling. But I had to go back to my country and he had to stay.
Generally, dream was are very happy and positive, even the thought of leaving him was not terrible.
I am asking for interpretations please
NAMASTE

I don't know if you have ever been to Italy or not, but the setting paints a perspective of romanticism. Drinking coffee is stimulating to your senses and heightens your awareness. Sitting can be new perspectives or quiet reflection among other things and since you're next to a church and the sea, spiritual awareness and emotional awareness and well being. You asked how to forgive your partner and let your super-consciousness be closer to you in everyday life. So which does this dream answer or does it answer both? By showing you to be more romantic and aware? By showing you to see and "feel" things as you did when you were in Italy, through the eyes of love and wonder. If you could do it there, why not here? The real answer to your question is simple. Forgiveness is simple. It's not about him, but rather about you, your feelings and expectations. For example, you can't be a little bit pregnant, you either are or you're not. Likewise, you cannot be a little bit compassionate. You either are compassionate or you're not. Forgiveness is not a process. It's an act of awareness and understanding and a gift to yourself.

[BarbaraT]

Thank You for your time and answer Very often I meditate and willing to forgive myself and everybody else but still working on it ...