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Originally Posted by DulcePoetica
My garden grows whether I tend to it or not. But it is a gnarly mess if I am not willing to WORK at it.
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Where you see a gnarly mess, I might see a glorious wildflower meadow!
Some of us have control freak issues. Some of us need to learn surrender and trust. Perhaps look at it this way - for some of us, NOT working
is working. Does that make more sense to you?
You might think when I post here I am trying to control how other people view things, but that would not be the case. Nine times out of ten, I post here only for my own benefit. I consider it me talking to me. I am playing around with -- "working on," if you like -- how I view things.