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01-12-2012, 06:12 PM
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Master
Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: God's House
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I Am Responsible
This needs to sink into my consciousness. I have a distinct victim mentality and I need to understand that I'm the one responsible for the things happening to me. I need to regain control of my life.
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The Humility, the Pride and the Humiliation.
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01-12-2012, 06:49 PM
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Master
Join Date: May 2012
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Honza I'm not far off that - I want to blame everyone else for my misfortunes but I'm beginning to believe that I chose to let x, y, z happen. With that in mind, I can choose for people to treat me differently in the future.
It's very basic and I'm not there yet, but I always include it in a whinge, that "i chose ...."
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05-12-2012, 12:47 AM
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You have free will to decide whether you will react and allow life to overcome you, or you can decide not to let it overwhelm you and take a positive action that breaks the cycle of negative response.
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05-12-2012, 12:49 AM
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Quote:
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Originally Posted by Honza
This needs to sink into my consciousness. I have a distinct victim mentality and I need to understand that I'm the one responsible for the things happening to me. I need to regain control of my life.
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yes, and when you do go beyond being a survivor and be healed!!!  |
05-12-2012, 08:30 AM
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Master
Join Date: Oct 2010
Location: Iowa, USA
Posts: 2,048
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Quote:
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Originally Posted by Honza
This needs to sink into my consciousness. I have a distinct victim mentality and I need to understand that I'm the one responsible for the things happening to me. I need to regain control of my life.
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You are certainly not alone. I've seen that play out in just about all aspects of my life.
The nice thing about finally taking responsibility is that it empowers self rather than handing power over to the circumstance, which led to the feeling of victimization in the first place. |
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