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Originally Posted by MIA4life
i am starting to feel as if he is trying to let me know that I too will be going soon and to kind of prepare those closest to me for it, since his was sooo unexpected. Is this possible? Or am I losing it?
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My condolences for your loss ...
Been there, done the grieving ...
Your SC is telling you he is still alive ...
For myself, while I was grieving the persistent fog/widowbrain/confusion interfered w/my ability to interpret properly ...
Death brings mortality to the forefront of our thoughts ...
What I eventually learned was these types of messages were to teach the wonder of life through someone else's death & to be grateful for your own ...
That is not to say you'll automatically resonate or accept it ...
Grief is a long process, given that, you'll spend alot of time finding your own answers, allowing them to resonate to resolve it one small step at a time ...
Since your SC's death was sudden & unexpected, many thoughts start to circulate almost like a vicious cycle ...
For example: "Should I prepare for my death" = decide what I want to be clothed in, type of casket, flower arrangements, etc ...
Its normal ...
If you are in shock (generally wears off between 4-6 months), its good to wait till it wears off before seeking ounseling ...
Shock is protection from reality ...
Light on your journey ...