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22-05-2012, 06:54 PM
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Master
Join Date: Sep 2011
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This reminds me of a mini version of actions and reactions my tf and I played out for lifetimes...funny how we get into patterns. (And I think that is just human - not tf).
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22-05-2012, 07:06 PM
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Master
Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: Nirvana, Florida
Posts: 1,216
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Well, in my case at least, I'm doing precisely the opposite of all the things which I heterofore have done:
1. Instead of fantasizing about her to death, all I have anymore (even in my worst moments) is some brief snippets of things we may or may not do in the future.
2. Instead of turning myself into a total basket case by asking myself "She Loves Me/She Loves Me Not" over and over, I am maintaining my equanimity to almost absurd levels of eveness.
3. Instead of hanging on her every action (coworker remember)-"Oh today she winked at me! Yay!" vs. "Oh today she completely ignored me! <sob!>" I just observe without reacting emotionally (well, as best as I can, understand).
4. Instead of pushing harder when she walks away, I just remain calm and collected and don't pursue her obsessively. Note she re-initiated things last week.
So, in all I think I've at least "bent" some old patterns if not "broken" them. FWIW. As for the rescuing thing (yes me too), we shall see.
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Love came rushing in
Out of the sky came the sun
Out of left field came a lucky day
Out of the blue
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