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Originally Posted by CrystalSong
'Slip him a note' just came to my mind.
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I thought about that, actually - I think that's kind of where I was coming from mentally when I gave him my contact info. So, good idea :)
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Originally Posted by CrystalSong
It seems easier than trying to forget about a guy you are obviously attracted too.
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Yes.... I'm trying my best but it's surprisingly difficult! I keep telling myself I'm just overreacting to a little bit of attention from a guy, and that it's not him, it's just that I liked the connection. But I've talked to many guys over the course of my life - I even talked to several the night I met this guy - and not one of them has had the same effect. Not one. Even guys who I knew had a crush on me had no effect. One of the guys I talked to that same night is also
very good looking, but there was zero connection and it didn't affect me at all when he talked to me. Left my mind 2 minutes later.
With this guy, I'm going on 2
months here. I keep telling myself to forget it and it's nothing, but I just don't believe it. It just makes no sense.
My mom said that maybe he hasn't added me on social media because he just created the account and probably wants to get some of his guy friends on his list before he adds me, so people won't question why one of his first friends is a girl he barely knows....
She also said he might not want it to look like he was looking for me. I guess we'll find out, if he adds me.... otherwise I'm trying to stop thinking about it.
I try not to look at his page at all, but whenever I see his picture there's this little voice in the back of my mind that says, "Hey, don't give up on this guy... just wait."