Ability of deceased to communicate

Originally Posted by dave sonsaleagain

Lady Terra, You need not be embarrassed about anything. Everyone who goes through this grieves in their own way. I am still learning what my way is. You spent 20 years with him and that bond will not likely be replicated but at the same time, I've always believed the human heart has an inborn desire to love someone. If that someone stumbles into your life, don't deny yourself happiness. Your husband would want you to be happy. Not that I'm saying you're not happy now. Also, I too now know exactly what they mean when they say til death do us part. We were never married but her sister held one hand and I held the other as she drew her last breath. Saddest day of my life.

My Beloved passed in home hospice of liver cancer. Our sons each held a hand and I sat on the bed with my hand on his heart--as it beat for the last time and he took his last breath.

We then bathed and dressed him and called the rest of the children to come and take part in the Candle Ritual to farewell his Spirit and held the wake.

We went through all the family albums and shared stories of our life (together) as a family.

You are so very kind to wish me well and it just so happens that their may be someone on the horizon--but he needs time to grieve his divorce and I still grieve for my husband--so for now we are just friends.

Time will tell for all of us.

Peace and Love on your path to Healing and Moving ever forward...

Blessed be...