Who do you choose your soulmate or the one god chose for you?

[Kupava]

I had two dreams one of my soulmate who I met in 2016, he was holding a piece of paper with all the ancient Irish words for soulmate on it. I knew as soon as I met this person that he was my soulmate and I had no confusion or doubt like I had with every other man. I had dreams before and intuited that he was coming for about three or four years.

The second guy I also properly met in 2016 it was the best year I ever had, he is so like me we are totally kindred and I worship him, we are together now and I dreamt and knew intuitively that this was the guy god wanted me with and chose for me. I had lots of signs of that too. However I do not consider him a soulmate.

I’m now torn on which guy I’m suppose to hold too, I guess I think god’s will is more important than soulmate status but I am looking for wisdom.