I've had connections with women and I've showed real interest only to be turned down many times. I'm not interested in casual stuff and sex is not something I want in the early stages. It's even worse online... you can be really nice and kind and show an interest in her as a person and about her background, and of course not post anything sexual ((I'd never do that)), and then you find out she blocked you. So what is the point really? I've seen people do such things whilst having ''yoga'' and ''meditation'' as interests in their profile. I mean... what the actual !!! People have so much to learn.. Perhaps a ''forgive them for they do not know what they are doing..'' moment?
And whatever happened to being honest BUT mixed with kindness. Like you aren't interested in someone, you can just say it kindly and then the other responds back in kindness ''thanks for letting me know! Good luck with the search!'' And that works both gender ways. But how often do you see that, most people act in childish, entitled and immoral ways.
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