Narcissist

[PastPilot]

I posted this inside another thread but it is something that really a question that should be on its own thread.

I deal with a narcissist and have distanced myself from them for a few years but they started portraying me on social media as the villain because I cut off communication (no contact). They speak of this often to anyone who will listen. I'd say they are fanatical about it. They state that because I no longer communicate with them that it proves I am a narcissist. Much of what they state I have done are in fact things they did and said. There is no owning up to their past actions. They are playing the victim. Their family understands who and what they are but outside the family, no one knows the truth.

As for forgiveness, I have forgiven them. They know not what they do. I hold no malice toward them. I never have... but their attacks persist despite me ignoring them. This has gone on for several years now without any signs of slowing down. They are claiming to be a lifelong victim of various people but their family members tell me this is done to create sympathy and to get revenge on those who they feel wronged them.

At what point does a narcissist evoke karma? Are they responsible for an affliction they were born with or was thrust upon them but seem to have no control over? Are their actions a test of tolerance for others? Are they souls who play the villain so others may experience and learn from them or are they just unplanned, running amuck, crying havoc, causing destruction for no purpose type of selfish people? Where and what is their responsibility in life?

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