Once toxic energy cord attachments are cut, what does the person have to 'do' to..

[Bubbles]

Hello!

1)

Once toxic energy cord attachments are cut and released, what does the person have to 'do' to not remake them over again and again and again at the same pace?

I do believe that it takes time to learn how not to remake the same toxic ties and even if not toxic, just energy draining cords then.

However, I am not really sure how it happens in the practical way and how a person can shield itself better by using its awareness.

2)

I guess it can be helpful to monitor with awareness the amount of energy being sent to someone when trying to help with advice or answers in detail (which take time) - in other words, imagine a chat conversation where you type 80% of the content and 'help' in detail too much. Is this the formation of an energetic attachment done subconsciously?

Another example: you have a good friend but he seems to be entangled in his own mentality and negative thinking, and despite you bring a clear solution and perspective to his problem, you forget that you can't change someone over the night but merely point out to certain doors which the other person itself must walk through.

3)

However what happens when the person keeps asking about these doors, and you point them well, but he never seems to walk through them. Do I create a subconscious belief that I am helping him, when I am aware that the advices and things are point are very useful, and so the other person senses too, but when it comes to manifesting them, they fail to do so - and then this creates a cycle for the other of being addicted to information and my attention and care, where I create for myself the illusion that I am doing good work and I am helping, while not realizing absolutely at all that this also depletes me. Add to that that I have no idea or protection, care, regarding the mutual energy exchange. Helping someone feels like you did good and could be an ego boost of some kind, but there is something I am missing here, because as time passes, every other month or so my Reiki master tells me yet again that I accumulated lots of such cords which need to be cut and released and is always surprised that I manage to gather this much. I wonder what I am doing to get again and again in this position, and I am trying to understand this in a layman explanation, in English because maybe then I can have the a-ha moment