Manifesting the person you want

Hi. Its been a while since ive posted. A lot has been going on with me offline.

I would like to hear more perspective on the idea of being able to manifest a specific person. Some people say you can't, others say you can. In the end its all about vibrational alignment.
Personally, I believe it is possible. But within reason. For example, if someone tells you that they don't want to pursue a romantic relationship with you, you can't change their feeling through manifestation. In fact, you can't change their feelings AT ALL.
But if you meet someone and there is a feeling on your end and they've remained opened to you on the surface, I believe manifesting could work. Now in the end, that person may not turn out to be what you wanted but they gave you the learning experience to know more of what you wanted.

Any thoughts?

[kindheart]

I think you can... but that the problem (as with any other things you try manifesting) is that then end result may not be what you had anticipated, or might not end up being for the highest good of all involved? As they say, "be careful what you wish for" hehehe.

For that reason, it actually makes me nervous to use affirmations to manifest things I want (it's so hard not to wish for a specific someone sometimes, though!)... I keep thinking, what if it's not for my highest good, and that by asking for something (or someone) specific like this (which may end up being unpleasant in the short or longer run... and we have no way to know for sure how it is to turn out exactly...? nor have knowledge of how alternatives would turn out to be), then I'm keeping the Universe (or God, Angels, etc.) from giving me what would truly make me happy?

Am I overthinking this? Is there a way around this?

Originally Posted by kindheart

I think you can... but that the problem (as with any other things you try manifesting) is that then end result may not be what you had anticipated, or might not end up being for the highest good of all involved? As they say, "be careful what you wish for" hehehe.

For that reason, it actually makes me nervous to use affirmations to manifest things I want (it's so hard not to wish for a specific someone sometimes, though!)... I keep thinking, what if it's not for my highest good, and that by asking for something (or someone) specific like this (which may end up being unpleasant in the short or longer run... and we have no way to know for sure how it is to turn out exactly...? nor have knowledge of how alternatives would turn out to be), then I'm keeping the Universe (or God, Angels, etc.) from giving me what would truly make me happy?

Am I overthinking this? Is there a way around this?

Not at all. But in my opinion, everything happens for a reason. If you manifest someone specific or some thing and they/it turns out to be a lemon, the Universe made it possible because there was a lesson behind it that you needed to learn. If you try to manifest someone or something and the Universe doesn't come through, the Universe is actually preparing for something better and knows what's best for you. If you manifest and it comes exactly how you like it, congrats. But everything in this life is meant to teach us. Never be afraid of manifesting. Its a gift we all have and very few of us know how to use. Never fear, the Universe knows what's best. Go ahead and manifest what you want.

Originally Posted by AquarianPhoenix84

Not at all. But in my opinion, everything happens for a reason. If you manifest someone specific or some thing and they/it turns out to be a lemon, the Universe made it possible because there was a lesson behind it that you needed to learn. If you try to manifest someone or something and the Universe doesn't come through, the Universe is actually preparing for something better and knows what's best for you. If you manifest and it comes exactly how you like it, congrats. But everything in this life is meant to teach us. Never be afraid of manifesting. Its a gift we all have and very few of us know how to use. Never fear, the Universe knows what's best. Go ahead and manifest what you want.

If "be careful what you wish for" is true, then how could that be "best" for anybody? People say it as greater than a caution, it is more of a warning. Sometimes, it can be threatening. When it happens, how is it then justified... got a lesson in "told ya so"?

Originally Posted by MidnightCrystal

If "be careful what you wish for" is true, then how could that be "best" for anybody? People say it as greater than a caution, it is more of a warning. Sometimes, it can be threatening. When it happens, how is it then justified... got a lesson in "told ya so"?

If its threatening and in your face and you don't do anything about it, then you got a lesson in "Told ya so." Sometimes, we have to experience something we want to know what we don't want in order to know what we do want. Have you ever listened to Abraham Hicks? I highly recommend you search Abraham and Esther Hicks. At first its hard to follow because of how much info is thrown at you at once but it makes sense and it will answer this question better than I can obviously. lol.

[jordank]

Yes, I say that is possible to attract a specific person. This has happen a few times in my life. I have read somewhere that your ''desire'' attracts you. If your mind and your thoughts are a lot on your love, then you send her telepathic vibrations/messages.

Originally Posted by jordank

Yes, I say that is possible to attract a specific person. This has happen a few times in my life. I have read somewhere that your ''desire'' attracts you. If your mind and your thoughts are a lot on your love, then you send her telepathic vibrations/messages.

Ive heard that too. A long long time ago someone told me that im attracted to someone because they are attracted to me to, they just don't always consciously know it.

Originally Posted by jordank

Yes, I say that is possible to attract a specific person. This has happen a few times in my life. I have read somewhere that your ''desire'' attracts you. If your mind and your thoughts are a lot on your love, then you send her telepathic vibrations/messages.

Yes, that is true. Your desire attracts you and you attract your desire. There is always a telempathic connection between everyone. It is being open and receptive to these energies which makes the difference, to consciously receive, that is. No matter, what, however, it is always received on at least a subconscious level of awareness.

(IMHO) we should be careful what we wish for.

When attraction is mutual--things happen naturally and of their own accord.

Peace and Love on the path of your choice...

Blessed be...

Originally Posted by LadyTerra

(IMHO) we should be careful what we wish for.

When attraction is mutual--things happen naturally and of their own accord.

Peace and Love on the path of your choice...

Blessed be...

I think the reason for the wish is also very important, and is it coming from ego-mind or the heart? I'd say be careful of manifesting with the ego-mind (IMHO). If you manifest with love, love being the highest vibration, there is always very quick and loving results.

oK yEa,

Love and Light itb,

KoN oK YeA oK buY LoL HeHe