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20-08-2014, 08:11 PM
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How to heal / overcome sexual Arousal? How to transcend human sexuality?
Dear Ones,
I suffer under our genital's function to express arousal. Suffer is a big term but I currently (!) see it as suffering in terms of that I desire to develop finer qualities. And my sexual energy can get quite loud, especially as a healthy male. The boldness in that area is deafening for all my other senses. It's like eating that one candy-bar and being so deep in a samadhic state of eating frenzy that you exclude your entire surrounding. Just with arousal in my case.
I do have had a healthy sex-life in my late teens, overdone it with masturbation as so many of us. But understood due to arising depression what I did wrong with my wasting of precious seminal fluid. Wasting my personal energy.
I have heard about angelic techniques of switching off chakras, of cutting the cord when travelling. Questionable to the eye of the beholder. Are there any known and approved techniques about switching of the genitals sexual functionality of producing arousal? I am here speaking about the penis errection function and the vagina's swelling. I am not speaking about cutting the seminal conducts or other detrimental ways. Keeping our sexual healthy energy, but feel no swelling of the genitals. No arousal.
How do we genuinely do this? Is celibacy the only option of effectively transcending human sexuality?
As funny as it sounds, but our mind is able to create all sort of alterations. I have disabled the aches of certain teeths, to exploit eating sugar, my liver needed in order to balance anger levels I have soaked up as unexperienced and natural empath. Call it useful, call it not to be. All temporarily.
I am somewhat relieved to realize while writing this, that in essence everything is perfect. And we are here to learn. Learn also about sexuality. Let me call it that way, that I am tired of getting sexually aroused, okay? That is more fitting. I know very well about the health benefits of enough creative/sexual energy flowing in our system and good hormonal levels, which I do have..
..just Arousal.
Please, can you share any personal experience / help?
I wrote this post so extensive, filled with personal experience, to minimize possible arising questions about my personal background.
Thank you.
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20-08-2014, 09:08 PM
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Location: Under the Morning Star
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Hi 4bsolute,
i have tried various methods,but the only thing that works(at least for me) is the will power and determination.I know why i need this type of energy and here discipline and commitment is what one needs.
Of course,something you maybe know is to avoid rajastic foods.
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20-08-2014, 09:27 PM
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Is this for real?
Why would you want to suppress one of the finest features of the human spirit? What do you hope to gain from this?
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23-08-2014, 03:51 PM
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Originally Posted by Badger1777
Is this for real?
Why would you want to suppress one of the finest features of the human spirit? What do you hope to gain from this?
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I agree. I am not sure what good it would do to 'fight it' as it were, it seems a waste of time and energy. It's a good release... Is good unless you are dealing with some sort of sexual addiction...which is a bit of a different issue.
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26-08-2014, 10:47 AM
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Originally Posted by TesseLated
I agree. I am not sure what good it would do to 'fight it' as it were, it seems a waste of time and energy. It's a good release... Is good unless you are dealing with some sort of sexual addiction...which is a bit of a different issue.
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Me slso why ruin the best thing a human can feel ? Why not find that one person and make love? It leaves you more energized because ur also sharing there enrgy x
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21-08-2014, 12:59 PM
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Location: Canada
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Have you tried balancing your chakras? It is possible to have your chakras "too open". I can relate when you talk about it being like eating a candy-bar! I have too much desire and cravings for sweets. I am changing the whole way I eat and think about food, and it is HARD.
I have the opposite problem in that my libido had always been way too low, and I had no sexual desire all my life. This is equally as difficult as having too much, although it is a different experience. It is not easy opening myself up to libido energy. I am ruled by a laziness, and from the past a fear and shame surrounding it, causing me to never feel arousal. It is better now, but not where I want it to be in a healthy way.
Like with anything though, much of it has to do with what we have habitually set in place for ourselves. So once we have the desire to change we still have to face our habits. We must recognize our thought patterns and our daily rituals surrounding our bad habits so we can work to change them. Is there a vice involved such as porn that you can wean yourself from? Are their creative, ecstatic activities you might like to try to redirect your sexual energy? Getting yourself "aroused" in other parts of your body, like mental interests or physical activities that take discipline, like martial arts, etc.. Our sexuality runs deeper than our genitals. Artists use it in art,writers use it in their writing. You can limit your masturbation to a certain number, much like someone cutting out a certain food they are sensitive to would limit their intake.
Unfortunately I don't think there's a magical solution, but it will take hard work and effort and a variety of modalities to heal and fix your habits.
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23-08-2014, 04:03 PM
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Its about redirecting the energy,not about suppression.Sexual energy,being like any form of energy,could be used for various goals.If one chooses to do so,that should be for good reason.
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25-08-2014, 03:33 AM
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Originally Posted by 4bsolute
Dear Ones,
I suffer under our genital's function to express arousal. Suffer is a big term but I currently (!) see it as suffering in terms of that I desire to develop finer qualities. And my sexual energy can get quite loud, especially as a healthy male. The boldness in that area is deafening for all my other senses. It's like eating that one candy-bar and being so deep in a samadhic state of eating frenzy that you exclude your entire surrounding. Just with arousal in my case.
I do have had a healthy sex-life in my late teens, overdone it with masturbation as so many of us. But understood due to arising depression what I did wrong with my wasting of precious seminal fluid. Wasting my personal energy.
I have heard about angelic techniques of switching off chakras, of cutting the cord when travelling. Questionable to the eye of the beholder. Are there any known and approved techniques about switching of the genitals sexual functionality of producing arousal? I am here speaking about the penis errection function and the vagina's swelling. I am not speaking about cutting the seminal conducts or other detrimental ways. Keeping our sexual healthy energy, but feel no swelling of the genitals. No arousal.
How do we genuinely do this? Is celibacy the only option of effectively transcending human sexuality?
As funny as it sounds, but our mind is able to create all sort of alterations. I have disabled the aches of certain teeths, to exploit eating sugar, my liver needed in order to balance anger levels I have soaked up as unexperienced and natural empath. Call it useful, call it not to be. All temporarily.
I am somewhat relieved to realize while writing this, that in essence everything is perfect. And we are here to learn. Learn also about sexuality. Let me call it that way, that I am tired of getting sexually aroused, okay? That is more fitting. I know very well about the health benefits of enough creative/sexual energy flowing in our system and good hormonal levels, which I do have..
..just Arousal.
Please, can you share any personal experience / help?
I wrote this post so extensive, filled with personal experience, to minimize possible arising questions about my personal background.
Thank you.
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Work at better understanding it .....
"Sexual Energy And Yoga by Elisabeth Haich"
'The Secret Of The Golden Seed by Richard Wilhelm'
"Alchemy and Kabbalah in the Tarot: The Keys For Radical Spiritual Transformation" by Samael Aun Weor
Still , it is best to find the inner Wisdom stream as you do this! For the transformed ENERGY needs expression!
"The Mystic Path to Cosmic Power by Vernon Howard"
A Course In Miracles by Foundation For Inner Freedom
The Nag Hammadhi Library by Glen Robinson
The Edgar Cayce Companion
All good material which supports the Great Work ..... Alchemy ~
Paying CLOSE attention to the dreams ! Guidance will first show up there!
Later you will hear it anytime, anywhere.
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25-08-2014, 03:37 AM
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25-08-2014, 03:42 AM
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Personally .... i feel the best way is just deep COMMUNION with the Divine Mind, it can lift this Energy and transform the desire.
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