I would love some gentle advice or insight on this topic weighing on my mind.
The general question I have is: are you "out" to your friends spiritually? Do your coworkers know? Would you proudly talk about a recent remote viewing on your facebook page (as an example)?
My personal question is more complex.
I am a writer. I have a "following" (lol, that feels icky to say). Which isn't to say I'm hugely famous
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More like I have somewhere around 100,000 people that "hear" me. More than usual but I'm not a Kardashian, right? I've written books and for magazines about social issues of import to me. LGBT rights, feminism, parenting, things along those lines. I teach classes and workshops and people come to me for guidance on specific issues.
I've been a buddhist for a decade and no one in my circle is surprised by that. However, I've recently felt called to talk more about my spiritual journey. I've had what I would call (it is all relative) slow spiritual progress my whole life and then last february I had an awakening experience that has made my lazy river ride of spiritual growth into swift bubbling rapids. Does that make sense? In that time I've backed off considerably from my social work because I was just too busy acclimating to my new journey.
Now I'm feeling called to write again but this time about my spiritual journey and how it relates to the topics I cared about before. What I care about hasn't changed. How I view it has been profoundly changed.
1. One side of me embraces this fully. As a writer I've always poured my life out ugly parts and all as an example for my writing (which is why people respond to me I think. I'm not preachy just "check out this idea"). I feel like to hide this part of myself would clog my writing in a way that it would no longer be authentic nor effective to the people who read it.
This side of me thinks I should use my current outlets (blogs, fb pages, etc.) to continue what I've always done: share my journey including my spiritual journey.
2. The other side of me sees that if I were to talk about certain things I would immediately be labeled a "quack". I'm ok with that. I'm not attached to what others think of me. But I am attached to the work I've put out there and how much it has helped people. I am afraid to have my work discredited not because it would be a blow to my ego (it would have a year ago) but because I know it will then reach fewer people, change fewer lives. That kind of breaks my heart.
This side of me thinks I should start a new, anonymous online persona to talk about some things and continue my work under my real name sans spirituality.
#2 seem dishonest to me. I've never been a private person and holding back a part of me seems, idk, icky.
I've been battling this connundrum for six months now. One day I just see so clearly what I need to do and the next day I am unsure or I feel the opposite. I've been meditating for clarity but it escapes me.
Thank you for reading this far
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I appreciate your help so much because I really feel conflicted.
For the record the people close to me vote for #2. They are motivated by fear of the backlash I will receive and also much more tied to the monetary benefits of my work (I am not). I also have children and my close circle fears that "outing" myself would place scrutiny on my family. We are already quite "non-mainstream" which I'm sure you can imagine is frowned upon by "The State". Plenty of things like not going to the doctor and instead visiting a reiki master (as an example) are perfectly legal and yet with a nosey neighbors call to CPS make you very suspect. I don't want to dwell in that fear.
What do you see in this? Do you see me clinging to something egoic? Is this just pride in my previous work that I need to work on? Have you dealt with anything similar?
Thank you for reading the struggles of an internet stranger. It is just 1 and 0 but it makes a world of difference to me.