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12-09-2014, 11:20 AM
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Knower
Join Date: Dec 2012
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How can I overcome Lustful thoughts
When I have sex for the first time I want it to be with someone special and who I love, but I have a lot of lustful thoughts that I've had since teenhood.
There's nothing wrong with lust but it's not what I want. I don't want sex to mean that to me but I get turned on by things very easily and takes usually 30 minutes for me to calm down down there (Or longer). What can I do to help with these thoughts? I hate how easily aroused I am because I want to be more focused on loving not lusting :(
PS: And please don't say it's natural, It's just not what I want :(
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12-09-2014, 12:28 PM
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Pathfinder
Join Date: Sep 2014
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nothing wrong in it. some aspects of human behaviour are so natural that you cannot actually overcome them. n the major reason being our society being quite flooded with the arousing things, the food, theatre fashion n all.
you cannot cut off yourself from all of it. and always remember things will happen at the right time. you cannot force anything in nature.
and about any technique you could go for when feeling aroused is just let it be there and not bother about it. the more you bother the longer it stays.
a good technique i know that works is the chakra attunement.
when you are aroused your entire energy conc is on your sacral chakra. inhale exhale and conc on your sacral and move the energy to your plexus. this energy will manifest as confidence and higher vibe and your drive will move off.
and remember we all are part of the great soul to live the physical reality. so accept it
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12-09-2014, 01:16 PM
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Ascender
Join Date: Aug 2013
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Exercise. Even my male friends say when they are into sports, they think less of sex. Same ia true for us women. Testosterone is the hormone that makes us feel horny or lustful. And this same hormone may be expended into phyaical activities. I vote sports. So far it is successful.
Though it will not remove all lustful thoughts im pretty sure being a little more literally active physically will do the trick.
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12-09-2014, 01:20 PM
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Experiencer
Join Date: Jul 2011
Location: Florida, US
Posts: 441
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I agree with Renessme. Testosterone is being produced. Give it something to do!
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12-09-2014, 03:47 PM
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Ascender
Join Date: Sep 2014
Location: Canada
Posts: 957
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Originally Posted by Beautiful Soul
When I have sex for the first time I want it to be with someone special and who I love, but I have a lot of lustful thoughts that I've had since teenhood.
There's nothing wrong with lust but it's not what I want. I don't want sex to mean that to me but I get turned on by things very easily and takes usually 30 minutes for me to calm down down there (Or longer). What can I do to help with these thoughts? I hate how easily aroused I am because I want to be more focused on loving not lusting :(
PS: And please don't say it's natural, It's just not what I want :(
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I feel that your chakras aren't balanced. Too much energy in the sacral chakra, I suppose. A healthy body should have a balanced flow of energy throughout the network of meridians. But people may have energy deficiency in certain parts of their body, and then maybe excess energy in other parts.
Sexual energy can be transformed into creativity. As a suggestion, you could try expressive your energy in creative works.
Alternatively, you could try to balance your energy flow.
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15-09-2014, 06:53 PM
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Knower
Join Date: Mar 2014
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You are being flooded with hormones, which is pretty unavoidable- this doesn't mean you have to act on your thoughts with another person, however, and it certainly doesn't make you a bad person or ensure that you will not approach sex in the "right" way when it actually does happen to you.
I am with the others who suggest exercise as a way to sublimate and tire yourself out.
I wish you the best of luck...
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16-09-2014, 03:41 AM
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Moderator
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And here I was thinking the op was a young male.
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Through delusion you are perceiving yourself as a bundle of flesh and bones, which at best is a nest of troubles.
Meditate unceasingly, that you may quickly behold yourself as the Infinite Essence, free from every form of misery. ~Paramahansa's Guru's Guru.
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16-09-2014, 12:57 PM
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Master
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Central Ohio
Posts: 1,016
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How can I overcome Lustful thoughts
Know that you are not in charge. Source of your thoughts is a higher controller (Ishvara). Place your trust in the higher controller and enjoy your life without worrying about these thoughts you have no control over.
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16-09-2014, 02:28 PM
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Nothing wrong with rubbing one out to relieve some stress & anxiety... Learn to Love your Self... Don't wait to become dependent on someone else to figure out how your body works... Due your Homework and Practice at Sexuality... Repression of Sexual Energy is Not Good....
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17-09-2014, 05:53 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2013
Location: Alaska
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Whenever those thoughts surface........pay attention to the time of the month. Are you possibly ovulating? Did aunt Flo come into town? Those might be significant times when you are especially hormonal and can't help but think of THAT!
If it makes you feel better..........I've had lustful thoughts at times but both my twin soul and I are innocent. If you really want your first time to be significant with the right person..........it will be.
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