cookie, what does it mean?

[figaromelting]

I was in a café with two people who are on a course I've started lately (I sit with them on a table, we get on ok, just acquaintances, I would assume the dream was to do with them as in waking life our energies don't really connect and they aren't interested in getting to know me.)

I was sitting next to them and there was a cookie standing out to me in the cake section and I said that I wanted it to the man next to me, so I asked the woman who worked there for it and she spoke to me in Spanish (knowing I was English) I don't speak Spanish, so I said 'gracias', even though I didn't understand a word she just said. She gave me a toffee cookie even though I wanted the chocolate one, so I said 'chocolate chip' and she just turned round and ignored me, I said 'I guess I'll just settle for this then' the people I was with agreed with me, and I ate it


What do you think this is saying?

[Michelle11]

You possibly do not know how to speak up for what you want in a way that communicates this clearly to the other person so you wind up accepting less in life as a result. Sometimes we do not push things simply because it is easier to just let it go (common response) so we do not have to deal with the hassle of things that become complicated but then we wind up getting shorted for what we want in life. Never settle for second best or being mistreated by anyone may be the lesson.

[figaromelting]

Thanks again Michelle, I love your interpretations, I can really relate to this, great advice!

[Michelle11]

Any time.