The Personality . ..

[Gem]

Originally Posted by Shabby

My beliefs are a bit different. I think that because people think there is a process it becomes their experience. I am not saying that mine is not a belief....but why would we choose consciously the belief in a process over a belief in no process? How does that serve one?

There is a process by which anyone practices and improves, trains to be stronger and works to overcome personal issues.

Originally Posted by God-Like

Hi Juanita .

I was at a spiritualist church a few months ago and I was sitting with a friend who's ex husband passed away 6 months previously . They had divorced a long time ago about 15 years . They never kept in contact whilst they were divorced and neither did their children .

The husband was very angry and stubborn whilst of the earth and never supported the children in any way .

Well the husband came through a medium at the church expressing in his eyes that he did nothing wrong and he even mentioned the amount of money that he was supposed to pay to support his children .

The medium said that he is not here to opologise but he wishes for you to pass on a message to the children that he was alive and well within the world of spirit .

In my eyes this husband not only 'self relates' as to being a person (he) also is holding on to the energy that he is above the need to opologise .

Could this be ego related?

x dazzle x

thats a hard one, I will admit......,.I would venture to say that this guy & how the heck could she look at his eyes????-----is pretty much earthbound and hasn't gone into the Light yet if this is, indeed, what he was communicating...... this is a new one for me, as usually they come through very apologetic...........he is definitely "self" relating which is fine but does appear to still be holding on to his ego or maybe just has a really horrid personality.........so he might be dead, but seems to be still earthbound....either that or this Medium got it all wrong, which is also a good possibility...... I'd like to hear more opinions on this one.......

[God-Like]

Originally Posted by Juanita

thats a hard one, I will admit......,.I would venture to say that this guy & how the heck could she look at his eyes????-----is pretty much earthbound and hasn't gone into the Light yet if this is, indeed, what he was communicating...... this is a new one for me, as usually they come through very apologetic...........he is definitely "self" relating which is fine but does appear to still be holding on to his ego or maybe just has a really horrid personality.........so he might be dead, but seems to be still earthbound....either that or this Medium got it all wrong, which is also a good possibility...... I'd like to hear more opinions on this one.......

Hi Juanita ..

I have seen that to be the case also, although some find it very difficult to look at their past thoughts and actions and come to terms with how that has effected others .

x daz x

Originally Posted by God-Like

Hi Juanita ..

I have seen that to be the case also, although some find it very difficult to look at their past thoughts and actions and come to terms with how that has effected others .

x daz x

well I see that you know about the life review that each of us must go through after we get back Home. We judge ourselves as we see everything that we have ever done, good and bad, and how it affected those around us....so yes, I imagine that this is very difficult, but part of the growing and learning process and is probably when and where we "decide" to come back and try it again with hopes of doing better.......