Idk what i act this way.

#1 03-10-2011, 01:17 AM

When my boyfriend didnt want to go somewhere i wanted to go i got so emotional...like overly emotional about it. I mean i started crying and was angry for like 5 hours about it..I dont understand why i acted like this because afterwards i just felt so guilty and horrible for treating him badly i mean i said things like "thats the last time ill ever ask to go somewhere".

Even though this happened 2 days ago and he forgave me ...i cant help but to feel horrible about it. Whenever this kind of thing happens in our relationship when i act mean towards him i will say to myself to not hurt him like that again. Then i end up doing it :( Can someone give me advice?

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astralsuzy · #2 03-10-2011, 08:12 AM

Try and forgive yourself for what has happened. Perhaps you acted that way because there were other issues that were making you angry. I am only guessing. When something like that happens again, just stop for a moment and think before you do something so you will not repeat that again. Other people may have some good suggestions.

NightSpirit · #3 03-10-2011, 09:21 AM

Perhaps because your only young and not fully mature yet. It takes time to mellow and not feel the world is all about you. Just being aware of what you do is a good start to righting it.

#4 03-10-2011, 08:32 PM

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Originally Posted by NightSpirit

Perhaps because your only young and not fully mature yet. It takes time to mellow and not feel the world is all about you. Just being aware of what you do is a good start to righting it.

Yeah im 21..and i do feel like theres still alot of growing that i need to do.

Xan · #5 04-10-2011, 01:41 AM

Yep... getting more aware of your feelings and reactions will let you not be so reactive in situations like this where you're not getting your way, and other challenges in relationships. Just pay closer attention inside yourself. It's a real education.

Xan