What do I do about a guy that is fixated on me?

[Kupava]

I am very tired of it, it feels obsessive, but I do share his feelings believe it or not, but not as much or as strongly as him. I don’t believe we would ever be suited however, and when I think of us in any lifetime it’s always so very off to me, usually I imagine it and he’s just too full on. It doesn’t work. I always have this need to turn away from him or just get back etc, it’s always a no from me and I’m not sure why it’s like that.

The only time he’s not fixated on me is when all these spirits come, yea I have lots of spirits and they ransack me badly and I have enormous amount of soul loss, I wake up and have no sense of who I am, and he no longer cares for me when that happens. I’m normally very upset about that, not because I want him but because it’s such a mistruth.

I don’t know what to do about him anymore, I can’t even use reddit any longer because he reads my reddit constantly, and I no longer feel comfortable sharing anything. Hence using this forum now. It’s like I’m in love with him, but he’s just too too much and I don’t feel we’re suited at all.

Oh yea and he’s definitely not my soulmate, I don’t feel that term applies to him in any way, I met my soulmate in 2016, I even dreamt that guy was my soulmate but I’m not with him.

[txsha]

Does this person have any influence on your life? Like if you share something on reddit that is personal, do they know others in your life and can tell them about it?

If they don't have much of an influence in your life, I would do my best to ignore them and stop responding and live your life the way you want to - so not hiding from reddit.

But I would only ice them out like that if you have already clearly told them that you are not interested and would like them to stop making advances of any kind including flirting.

I might also journey or talk to the spirits about why they come to you and what they need, and see if you can give them what they need and then they will leave you alone.

[Kupava]

Thank you so much for your reply, it helped. Malignant spirits don’t care about what you need or want, they are just there to ruin your life and destroy you. It’s mostly malignant spirits on earth, the good ones go to the light.