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Originally Posted by ForgedInFire
Id hardly call creating 2 threads in the past 6 months or longer a mission or a witch hunt against women FC. This forum, belief in twin flames, and those who teach about twin flame are mainly women. Having said that the majority of those teachers and tarot readers are leading many women to believe in and behave in these ways this thread is about.
Just going to youtube and what is the ONE thing i see there?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HxEkxl9gJoY
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ri6FbCb5nWI
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uVJt3EpV2NM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K8i0FuzXFXs
All are videos about the "DM and their KARMIC partner"
Imagine that..
Bringing awareness to these behaviors isnt me being negative low vibrational nor acting out of ego. Is a parent called a bad parent or any of those other things you call me when they correct their child for behaving badly? No.
I receive many pm's from people often.. by women who tell me that my threads or posts have been a great help to them even if what i said triggered them at first. Not only that but it helps them to bring the focus back to themselves for deeper healing.
Self mastery.The actual purpose of twin flames.. unlike all those frauds out there who keep many women focusing on the "DM and their karmic partner" and obsession on the DM constantly and away from themselves.
My purpose isnt to attack women.. its to bring awareness to the lies and toxic behavioral patterns so many are learning by all these numerous predator frauds. It just happens to be practiced by women much more often thats all. |
I guess we all have a purpose, and maybe it's kind of honorable, but I wouldn't want to be in that place as it is a lower vibrational 'position'. It's negative, a place of conflict and hurt. Even if you say you only want to help it still means you resonate with that vibe yourself. And it will keep you resonating there as well since you're busy with it.
I have never come across any video of DM and Karmic Partner. I don't resonate with that stuff, so I don't find it. But I'm not the kind of person to remain stuck after breaking up, not even when it's my TF. I take my time to heal for sure, but I am not going to waste my life pining over him.
I come across too many people who do that, not just women, mostly it's men. Women are easier inclined to do the healing work than men. Women would easier get therapy too if need be, men don't. Like a man drives around for 2 hours when he's lost whereas a woman would simply pull over and ask directions. In a way it's easier for women to heal and move on because we are wired to deal with emotions and feelings more than men. And not just wired, but also reared that way. "Boys don't cry", right. That societal attitude works against men when it comes to healing after breakups.
I come across tons of men who are bitter, angry, hurt and haven't healed after a breakup. Most still focus on the ex who 'did that to them' (yeah right! It takes two to tango!). For many this is about a divorce that dates back 16 years!! and they still bad-mouth that ex.
That's one of the reasons I don't like it when people start ranting that women have to change. It IS woman who does the work. Therapy, workshops on personal growth, workshops on healthier relationships and so on are filled mostly with women. It's the same in the TF community. It's mostly women who seek information, guidance and help.
And sure, there's a group of women that is (temporarily) stuck. But these are mostly younger women. They will get there when they get a bit older and wiser.
I know this about age, cos I A) notice that here and on other fora and B) from the demographics info of my YouTube channel.
I really feel there should be more guidance and help for men, because they need it. Reaching them is another thing entirely as they don't tend to seek it out in the open like women do, provided they are seeking it.
As it is I feel men will mostly change because women change and grow. But things could go a lot faster if men themselves were more actively involved and started doing the work. I know there has been an increase in men who do seek growth, but still seriously lagging behind in numbers compared to women.
That's not gender bashing btw, I can't stand gender bashing, that's why I have a problem with a number of your postings. And I'd feel and react the same way if it was a woman talking that way about men.
My purpose in life, my Soul calling, has to do with helping balance and harmonize the sexes, feminine & masculine energies. To help this global process along. For now I choose to work with women, to help them get empowered in their feminine strength. But I don't work with women who are still stuck in lower vibrational beliefs, only women who are ready to do the work. Of late I do feel a pull to do a similar thing for men, but I'm not ready for that myself just yet. But I think that will come in the future.
Being brutal in your approach when it comes to this subject might wake up some who are stuck and going round in circles. But please bear in mind that you are not directly addressing this group, but everyone on here. And people who are moving out of being stuck are often still not on solid ground, they're in between being stuck and finding footing in a place of growth. Your aggressive style may make that group wobble, doubt themselves, make them feel guilty and cause them to fall back to the place they only just left behind.
So you might wake up 1 and cause 10 to 'lose' it. And I still feel most what you tell has either a direct message or an undertone of blame. Blaming the feminine. Even if you shake up some women, they don't need to feel guilty and blame. That will work against them later on.
I've seen you come up with a lot of wisdom, why not spread that around a bit more? There's so few men who do that, and
that could truly help the feminine.
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