Tough Love - or is it?

So when you pass over, a jesus avatar will ask:

'What have you done for your fellow man?'

And most people will mumble sheepishly and say not much.

The avatar also is not interested in what job you have been doing.

It is the kindness that matters, the small acts of kindness.

They are not really interested in your earth life.

But does this not sound completely callous, even psychopathic?

Yet we are led to believe that they are more loving than on Earth?

Clarity please.