Reaching out for connection

[Luminary]

Just reaching out for connection to the like-minded and like-hearted. I had isolated myself for years both somewhat intentionally and unintentionally. Recently, I became aware of how limiting a belief and thought I held for a long time was. It was: “I’d rather be alone than in an unhealthy relationship.” I often confirmed this to myself whenever I made a boundary with someone. In retrospect, I put up a lot of walls and slammed doors when a loving boundary would have sufficed. The universe reflected back to me the very thing I projected! My new mantras: “I love connection,” and “I invite, welcome and embrace loving connection,” (I open my arms to the sky and receive it in abundance <3). Also, there’s no more fear of being trapped. “I am free from unhealthy attachment. I am free to love everyone.” Finding grace now to see the beauty in others, some that may be hidden from the natural eye. Giving others more permission to be imperfect and do what they need to do maintaining love for myself. Connection has been gradually manifesting.
Alas, my heart still longs for deep spiritual connection. Gratefully, I’m not right now experiencing the waves of loneliness that had been growing more frequent over the last few years, lasting longer and longer, and being increasingly acute. There was a time I felt safe and comfortable in my own little world. I feel I’m outgrowing it. In this human experience we are social beings meant for balance between autonomy and interdependence.
Thank you, friend, if you’ve had the patience to read this! I’d love to hear your thoughts. Have you found your high vibe tribe? Honestly – any word from your heart and/or experience will be cherished. Love to hear about psychology, philosophy, mantras and affirmations, working with deities (something I’d like to add to my practice), channeling, energy work, magic, and the like, and most of all, the nature, character and magic of Love who is conscious and intelligent to me.
Love, comfort and safety to all. So be it.

[lostsoul13]

I found my tribe!

Least I’m collecting as I go along.

I recognise connections that are included in my clan often- but life is so vast like TFS they have many lessons before we can reunite!!

Some we’ve connected and are doing their own thing~ I’m patiently waiting but getting on with my own experiences… working hard to overcome reincarnation and its profound effects on my spirit/soul..

I’m coming to terms with it everyday.. but I’ve been so lucky with my experiences in life.. we all experiencing in our own pace. Things I’ve experienced and found a burning hope for by discovering the truth.. albeit it’s my truth and doesn’t always serve others including my tribe.. we are all so unique that others could have something that’s never been discovered or I would understand or attract.. we all have our unique abilities and through reincarnation that will manifest..

Really I’ve found a lot of truth so things are less crazy but with new age stuff~ magic, teleportation,telepathy, traversing, manifestations people will still consider you crazy.. maybe we are.. but it’s hope in hindsight…

I’ve had a lot of communication with my soulmates and tf. But we are not runners just life gets in the way and we are all so young- many lives get till we cross paths and get back to the real meaning behind our connection-

It’s just boils down to face we are a tribe and we are always together for sake of the children ,family, friends , acquaintances..

We are not alone.. we are loved.. we are special and regarded and unique and regarded.

We always find our way back to each other because family is important.. we are Webb of family trees that always love each other unconditionally..

But we have to understand the self, how to navigate reincarnation or what ever it is that’s keeping us away from reunion..

I have faith though!!! And it’s just growing pains.. the negative is fond of the silver linings..

[PinkFlower]

Hello Luminary :-) and happy to connect with you here. It’s beautiful to hear about your journey and newfound mantras! I think you are doing a great job.

Allow me to offer some inspired actions that might resonate with you. Consider doing a Google or Facebook search for local groups in your area based on your interests. Whether it’s dancing, art, meditation, or any other passion, joining a group can be a delightful way to make new friends and share meaningful experiences. For instance, I’ve joined a dance group and we do everything from ballroom dancing to conscious movement. Laughter and camaraderie abound! (as we are all trying not to take ourselves too seriously).

I’ve also been going to a dog shelter in my city and help walk the dogs every other week. I really enjoy being among animals and they are so free with their love and affection. Perhaps there’s a similar opportunity near you?

Spiritual connections can manifest in various ways through friendships, mentors, or even chance encounters. Sometimes, a simple smile exchanged with a stranger on the street can create a beautiful connection.

I hope my message helps and may your heart find the deep spiritual bonds it seeks! :-)

[DaneA]

I hear a lot about setting boundaries from people with whom I work. Setting boundaries is fine but don't let it become 'set in your ways.' Allow for the possibility that adjustment may be needed to let a relationship grow. Remember that in any relationship the opposite person will also set boundaries. - perhaps be forced to by your boundaries. Too fixed and communication can become stunted with the obvious consequences.