On Conception and Abortions --- From A Spiritist Perspective

Originally Posted by leadville

Elfin your mailbox appears to be full - time to empty some stuff.

Oh sorry!!! Will try to clear !

Originally Posted by Elfin

Oh sorry!!! Will try to clear !

These mailboxes do fill up... I had to thin out my old messages recently, some in there were from between 2015 and 2013!

Originally Posted by Elfin

Thank you searched so much. I prepared to be verbally "stoned" to death over this. I felt it may have sente packing off the forum. But I knew I needed to be brave and tell it, because it is my truth, and I could not hide away from that fact. It's no good harbouring secrets. Do you know what hurt more that the babys father besting me?.. several years later I read an announcement of delight from him and his partner celebrating the birth of their "first" child. I swear I wanted to send her a letter and say "actually love , this is his Second child".. But then again that is never the way forward either. And yes.. one day, when we all see the error of our ways, and have to learn from it, truths will be shown. Having said that, I too have lessons to learn for I have made my own share of mistakes...x

The way I look at it the only fortunate thing that came out of this whole tragic mess is that you did not end up marrying such a pig. He showed his true colors for what he did to you and your anticipated baby. That was not a normal reaction. I can't help but feel a bit sorry for that new woman in his life and that new baby, sadly I think his true colors would show itself over time.

[BigJohn]

Originally Posted by Elfin

Oh John... What would I have ever done without you? Thank you.

You are like a flower....... who is starting to blossom.

Is it not just the beauty that catches our eyes
but also the pleasant scent that you permeate the air with.

Originally Posted by asearcher

The way I look at it the only fortunate thing that came out of this whole tragic mess is that you did not end up marrying such a pig. He showed his true colors for what he did to you and your anticipated baby. That was not a normal reaction. I can't help but feel a bit sorry for that new woman in his life and that new baby, sadly I think his true colors would show itself over time.

Hi and yes that is very true. I would not have wanted to be paired off with such a person
And certainly he was no role for a child. I have often wondered whether that mans relationship lasted and about the child he had. But maybe it's better I don't know!!!

Originally Posted by BigJohn

You are like a flower....... who is starting to blossom.

Is it not just the beauty that catches our eyes
but also the pleasant scent that you permeate the air with.

Thank you John as always . I always think of myself as a weed. But your words are lovely.

[linen53]

Originally Posted by Elfin

Thank you John as always . I always think of myself as a weed. But your words are lovely.

Ah, but even weeds have flowers Elfin.

Originally Posted by linen53

Ah, but even weeds have flowers Elfin.

.....Thank you Deb. I don't know what to say. X

[BigJohn]

Do not need to say much: beauty comes in many forms.

I have often wondered if the mom's emotional stress can cause the spirit in the anticipated baby's body to chose to abort on it's own. Has anyone encounter this?