Originally Posted by tabane27
My Nan passed few years back and she came through last night in my minds eye. This is usually how I see spirit. When she came through there was no message or nothing. As she stood there looking at me I realised something and never thought about it before until last night. With her was my guide but they were not standing side by side. Behind my nan was black void.
Since she’s passed away she’s always come through in the same way like she’s just appeared from the void.
When I have seen other spirits in my minds eye there is always a background, always. But with her not.
I’m now thinking has she not moved on after these years gone by. If so why not. Or is there another reason. I don’t understand. Can anyone help me with this one
hi, may i ask - you haven't seen her step out of a black kind of hole and change form and then become you nan? I have to ask this because i have seen it happen, not just one person but several beings. when i remember having been a ghost (long story, gonna spare you from that one ha ha)there was mist all around me. when i in what i thought was dream and was trying to talk to someone in a coma i remember thinking that persons name over and over and suddenly i was with this person but couldn't see it, ti was again this fog, incredible fog, but i was giving the current updates, the person ask me if had died, i said no no, and just kept giving the current information, if i remember this right this went on for weeks, now and then i would remember going to her. but i thought it was just dreams. then one day as this someone had woken up and was improving great and so on - when seeing me sort of let everyone else step aside, hug me and began saying thank you - thank you for visiting me, thank you for telling me, you found me. that really spook me out - because i honestly thought it was just dreams and i have no idea how we even did that, but i was told i had come where ever this person was and calm down with the current medical information i had. i think there are most likely many dimensions in the after life, many realities. it is not at all as easy as someone thinking well just go to the light. as a ghost - i sure as hell (can i write that??) did not see any light. i was there as real as i am in this reality.
i remember too as a ghost that it was telepathic communication going on but i was not familiar with it so when I heard voices calling my name I had no idea if they were good or bad or what they were - i just knew there seem to be entities in the mist, I was very much afraid. this is where it gets funny. we human learn to be afraid of ghosts - but I was the most easily frighten ghost there was myself.
What is so strange is that it was like we were all blind there, but I had no trouble seeing earth, seeing the people on earth. And I can't explain that. I was shock when i found out who i had been in that life and what i had seen as a ghost - particular people, house, a special event - had in fact happen. blew my mind. (you don't want to know all the time i spend looking in old papers, ancestry.com in order to find my past life self...)
what it could very well be with your nan is that there are spirits from her soulgroup and others, we may not have them all with us during current life time so they are up there, as they say. anyhow - they might have tried to contact her through the mind -but she might be afraid to answer, or might not know how she is going to do that.
did you nan die any abrupt death or something? is she fully aware she is dead?
when i was a ghost i died young and it wasn't expected and it shocked me and to be air out of that shock i don't think i function quite normally. it could be the same with your nan.
you could ask for help from the other side to help her and either find a medium who can see her where she is or try to develop this yourself, because you have already described your ability.
there are on youtube meditations about seeing loved ones in the afterlife - try that perhaps and see how it works - if you can get in contact with her.
there is no seeming time there on the other sides, realities, not to my memory, so my time reality was somewhat a blur, but i could see that it could be day and night at earth. this is how i think spirits can be trapped in a certain reality after death - no idea how much one has been dead or one been there etc, one's time rule is just off the chart, but this is only my own personal thinking, experience. so even if it for you has been a very long time that she has been dead she may not at all have the same time perception, so don't worry about that part.