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Old 08-06-2022, 03:41 PM
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Children need to properly call parents as Mother and Father for better development?

In the formative years of childhood, as the child is just learning to speak, it's important that the parents are more involved in raising the child. This way, the child will better develop the ability to properly address his or her parents as mother and father. This will also help the child develop as a person, and emotionally as well. If a person doesn't properly address his parents as father and mother, but instead view them more like friends, then that person is likely to act immaturish in career choices and with relationship decisions. People who know how to properly address their parents as mother and father are better developed, and tend to be more successful with their careers and relationships.


For this, I'm thinking more in terms of Parent Relationship Temperament, meaning that whatever your child calls you, it sounds like Parent, instead of Friend or Workbuddy.

I was walking outside at night, and a boy (about two or three years old) on the sidewalk suddenly turned around and called me father. I was surprised and didn't know how to respond, and it appeared to have disappointed him. I really hope that the child's father can be by his side more.

There appears to be a period around three years old when the child learns to call out mom and dad. It's vital in this period that the parents are with the child, so they learn to identify who to call with the Parent Relationship Temperament.

Besides one's own parents, people appear to be raised or brought up by either Grandparents-father's-side, Grandparents-mother's-side, or Babysitter. Additionally, there are people who call only the mother with Parent Relationship Temperament, but not the father, or just the father with Parent Relationship Temperament (but not the mother, though this appears to be a rarer occurrence than only calling the mother with Parent Relationship Temperament).

For people who do not call one's own parents with the Parent Relationship Temperament, though call Grandparents-father's-side with Parent Relationship Temperament, they appear to take what they are responsible for less seriously.

For people who do not call one's own parents with the Parent Relationship Temperament, though call Grandparents-mother's-side with Parent Relationship Temperament, they appear to take their own educational or career development less seriously.

For people who do not call one's own parents with the Parent Relationship Temperament, though call Babysitter with Parent Relationship Temperament, and especially when the babysitter has no further connection to the child later in life (temporary babysitter), they appear to take their loved ones, and people they care for, less seriously.

For people who call only the mother with Parent Relationship Temperament, they appear to take their responsibilities as a child and student less seriously.

For people who call only the father with Parent Relationship Temperament, they appear to take their adult responsibilities as a parent and co-worker less seriously.

People who call only their mother or their mother's parents (Grandparents-mother's-side) with Parent Relationship Temperament appear to have a less developed Energy Sensitivity Intelligence.

Similarly, people who call only their father or their father's parents (Grandparents-father's-side) with Parent Relationship Temperament appear to have a less developed Emotional Sensitivity Intelligence.

In an earlier thread, "Friendship Energy" appears to be related to Energy Sensitivity Intelligence, while "Facial cues and Body language" are related to Emotional Sensitivity Intelligence. Children who call only their father or Grandparents-father's-side with Parent Relationship Temperament appear to be less well developed in terms of Emotional Sensitivity Intelligence, because their father is already associated with Emotional Sensitivity Intelligence, so they might learn to compensate using the Energy Sensitivity Intelligence, or develop their Energy Sensitivity Intelligence more relative to developing Emotional Sensitivity Intelligence.

On the other hand, children who call only their mother or Grandparents-mother's-side with Parent Relationship Temperament are less developed with regards to Energy Sensitivity Intelligence, because their mother is already associatd with Energy Sensitivity Intelligence, so they compensate by developing more of their Emotional Sensitivity Intelligence, relative to Energy Sensitivity Intelligence.

People being raised by a babysitter, or who call their temporary babysitter with Parent Relationship Temperament appears to have the Anger Emotional Repression in terms of how they react to their responsibilities and themselves.

People being raised by their grandparents, or who call their grandparents with Parent Relationship Temperament appear to have the Sadness Emotional Repression in terms of how they react to their responsibilities if raised by the (grandparents-father's-side) and themselves (grandparents-mother's-side).

People who are raised by their father or father's side grandparents appear to be more Energy Sensitivity oriented, associated with Universal Oneness Feeling, and being more in-tune with Love-Happiness Energy. This likely balances the Emotional-Sensitivity orientation of the father, or male side of family.

People who are raised by their mother or mother's side grandparents appear to be more Emotions Sensitivity oriented, associated with Think-and-You-Shall-Achieve Feeling, and being more in-tune with Fun-Joy Energy. This likely balances the Energy-Sensitivity orientation of the mother, or female side of family.

People who are raised by their father or father's parents (grandparents-father's-side) appear to act like a Workbuddy Relationship Temperament in the energetic sphere, while those who are raised by the mother or mother's parents (grandparents-mother's-side act like Friend Relationship Temperament in the energetic sphere. This could explain why people raised by the grandparents-father's-side appear more serious, due to being Energetic Sensitivity Intelligence oriented in the energetic sphere, with interacting with individual telepathic energetic voice ethers, while those raised by the grandparents-mother's-side appear more goofy, due to being Emotionally Sensitivity Intelligence oriented in the energetic sphere, with interacting with individual telepathic energetic voice ethers.

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Old 14-06-2022, 09:15 AM
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I'm wondering how accurate all of these claims are as they sound quite strong. Is there a lot of research behind this? Also, are the kids you are talking about measured again as adults or are they only viewed in the context of when they are young?
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Old 14-06-2022, 09:05 PM
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I have a intent and purpose mother which I call mum: but I biological one is yet to manifest - even though I grew up in a child avarta I wasn’t birthed like normal babies - when I hit reincarnation and lose my centre and reincarnate to my birth mother and she gives birth to me- the cycle of birth and learning has begun: but I fear it’s only to learn of death that’s looming by the time we are hundred odd!! Even before then death will come snatch us…
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Old 15-06-2022, 12:04 AM
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No, name does not matter. What does matter is the relationship between parent and child. Parent should parent and not be the child's buddy. The child looks to the parent to guide them, nurture them, protect them and raise them. As long as the parent does that, whatever name the child calls parent as long as its agreeable to the parent it doesn't matter, IMO.
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Old 15-06-2022, 01:00 AM
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I'm wondering how accurate all of these claims are as they sound quite strong. Is there a lot of research behind this? Also, are the kids you are talking about measured again as adults or are they only viewed in the context of when they are young?

Thank you for your interest.

The research is mostly taken from person observations, including those of videos about people and their stories, besides from personal experience.

If you have any questions about anything particular, please let me know.
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No, name does not matter. What does matter is the relationship between parent and child. Parent should parent and not be the child's buddy.

Certain children, after learning just to talk, are taken care of by a babysitter while parents are at work. Otherwise, they are left at a kindergarten and spend time with the kindergarten teachers instead of parents. This can be very confusing for the children, especially when they haven't identified who their mother and father are. If the child identifies the babysitter or kindergarten teacher as the parent, then that can affect the child permanently as he or she grows into adulthood; this effect carries with the person his entire life.

It likely explains why parents are so encouraging of their children to call Mom, Mama, and Dad, Papa.
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Old 15-06-2022, 02:41 PM
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It's from personal observations (online videos of personal stories, for example), research into the Relationship Temperament, and experience, as well as mind play, in which I picture someone in my mind, how that person would act and what that person would sound like if he calls out mom and dad, or babysitter, or even YehYeh-Nainai (grandparents-father's side), or Laolao-LaoYeh (grandparents mother's side).
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