Indigo low confidence low self-esteem

[l o t u s]

Originally Posted by engellstein

Maybe a few think like that but the majority think like, "I knew I was different than everybody else!"

Huge difference. And that is said because they never fit in anywhere before then and there's nothing worse than to live your life and not know your place.

Only YOU think that they think they are "more special" because you're evidently struggling with victim issues. That has nothing to do with indigos. You no doubt carry that attitude with you everywhere you go in life. Tip: best get those negative thoughts cleaned up. It'll help you immensely in all areas of life.

Right.... you don't have entitlement issues. I see a big wall you're hiding behind that needs tearing down. Good luck with that.

Victim issues? Speak for yourself. I think you've answered your original question.

[engellstein]

Originally Posted by l o t u s

The thing is you kind of do have a sense of superiority. You go on to tell me my opinion is biased an uneducated because I don't come across as glittery and sunny to you.
You describe "bratty individuals with entitlement issues" with a completely than you when there are certainly "indigos" who have "entitlement issues" as you say.
I didn't "attack" you. I'm entitled to my opinion. If you don't like it, too bad. I may be the only one to speak up the way I do, but I know I'm not alone.
What's with these "indigos" being so easily offended.

I find fault in you saying I have superiority issues when in my original post I made it very clear that I felt below everyone all my life and lacked self worth. Given the context, your comment was short-sighted and ignorant. It was a troll comment that had zero bearing on the discussion.

[l o t u s]

Originally Posted by engellstein

I find fault in you saying I have superiority issues when in my original post I made it very clear that I felt below everyone all my life and lacked self worth. Given the context, your comment was short-sighted and ignorant. It was a troll comment that had zero bearing on the discussion.

Many people who lack self worth feign a sense of superiority as a defensive mechanism. I would expect an indigo to understand that. I'm not afraid to express a little darkness. I find it ridiculous so many spiritualists are afraid of their shadow side. You're clearly ashamed of yours.

Troll comment... huh... again you're no better than how you're describing me. I find it is shameful that you're 36, though that may not be true. I've met 16 year olds with clearer judgment.

[Astro]

These starseed terms are a stepping stone to realising that we are all supernatural beings. We're all made of the same stuff, but we're all here for different reasons. I feel that some humans are not designed to awaken to this because they're here for other reasons, whatever they may be.

I'm socially awkward too, or can be. It depends on the company, as it does with everyone I imagine.

There are many so called indigo's out there if you care to look close enough.

[LadyMay]

Originally Posted by l o t u s

Many people who lack self worth feign a sense of superiority as a defensive mechanism.

I agree with this, but really what else is there to do when you grow up in a society where you're wired back to front? And are stigmatised for it?

As a kid you don't know any different, you just protect yourself anyway you can.

[LadyMay]

Originally Posted by engellstein

I feel that I now need to figure out how to get past all this confidence and self-esteem lack. I know people that have similar issue with those things and yet they are content in life, it's like they just accept it as the way things are. Me, I've always felt like they were keeping me from what I really am and I've been searching for the way out of the mud puddle for years with little success. Maybe understanding my purpose better will change how I feel naturally?

Acceptance is really the only way. You can't grow if you keep pushing the problems away or try to be someone else. I've spent most of my life trying to be someone else in order to hide to others and myself that I really felt inferior. But acceptance feels like a breath of relief, and is really healing. It's hard at first, but it gets easier with practice.

[John32241]

Originally Posted by engellstein

I'm just starting to do research and figure out how I fit in and after running into this indigo volunteer wave stuff it all just finally makes sense. I feel that I now need to figure out how to get past all this confidence and self-esteem lack. I know people that have similar issue with those things and yet they are content in life, it's like they just accept it as the way things are. Me, I've always felt like they were keeping me from what I really am and I've been searching for the way out of the mud puddle for years with little success. Maybe understanding my purpose better will change how I feel naturally?

Hi,

As I see it, the key is to fully embrace Self Love. When you can truly love All That You Are then you will indeed be content in life.

Your purpose is to be happy, as I understand it. There are no unhappy spiritual masters in our history books. The masters were able to deal with life from a place of joy and celebration.

Can you be happy with your particular journey of self discovery? Can you celebrate it?

John

[engellstein]

Originally Posted by John32241

Hi,

As I see it, the key is to fully embrace Self Love. When you can truly love All That You Are then you will indeed be content in life.

Your purpose is to be happy, as I understand it. There are no unhappy spiritual masters in our history books. The masters were able to deal with life from a place of joy and celebration.

Can you be happy with your particular journey of self discovery? Can you celebrate it?

John

Wow, that was well put. I'm gonna take this to heart. Thanks!

[Marie]

You need to learn patience, and towards others. And you need to learn not to judge others, and call them stupid. No one are stupid! It's a grave spiritual error. If you call others stupid, you've just deemed others to be lesser than you, inferior, and you more than them, superior. That's highly wrong!

Just because you pick up things quick, does not mean that others have to. Or talk at a quick pace, or even understand and function. It's you that have to develop patience, and love for others. If you're so developed you would understand to love others like you love yourself.

You say that in the end you'll do it better than them, and that you are hiding your knowledge until then. That's again, superiority inferiority thinking. Are you sure you don't have problems with superiority and inferiority? Any of those are in error, and are not a part of a balanced, spiritual path, but lead to entrapment and the dark side. It is not part of the Light. No one are above, or under anyone. Everyone are EQUAL.

If other people have problems with your knowledge or way of being, and functioning, it is they, who have a problem. Not you. And, you don't have to socialise those who act that way. You're so to speak living in fear of others and their reactions towards you, but real friends would love you for who you are. Don't be afraid to be the one you are. After all, that's what you came for. But watch any superior or inferior thinking and behaviour, because it's leading you to darkness. Watch your thoughts. Be humble.

[Marie]

You have to understand, that inferiority and superiority are the same thing. It's the same. They both have the same behind laying reasons, that they don't feel good enough. That's what the others see. And I see like I've just explained in my earlier.