When Spirit comes what to do

[energy4ever]

I have been approached by the spirit of my exes relative.
First I did not know he was dead (or if before been sick or in an accident).

It was first couple of days and nights of streams of communication, then less frequent.

In Life he and my ex had their issues but behaved around me. He has explained some things to me. Feel as if he has healed me from some things from the relationship and I am left with a better understanding of everything. Feels so good!

I have gotten used to other Spirits communicating but not like this relative.

I suppose to him we are still Family and he's watching over us (Me included in that).

I now am thinking of contacting a Medium if it is so that the relative needs help. Should I do that or wait?

[AngelBlue]

Hi.... It seems to me as though this person just needed to let you know and understand certain things . He has done that.
It does not strike me that he needs any help in particular for himself so I don't feel that you need to see a medium with regard to that fact.
HOWEVER... I still think it's nice to go and see a medium anyway because you just never know who will come through with certain messages. You might get some lovely messages from other people , and it would give him the opportunity too to relay any further messages.

[Native spirit]

What Angel has said is true he is not coming to you for help. it wouldn't hurt to go and see a medium to get a better understanding,
As you are open to spirit see if there is a spiritulist church near you ? as most offer classes which would help you further.


Namaste

[Lynn]

Hello

I agree more he seems to see this as a personal closure for him or something he had to do to be whole in crossing.

What a Medium would bring to you is messages from only those that have something to say to you or that are willing to come in to communicate. It does not mean they could make contact with just him or him at all.

So many times when I was doing Platform Shows for a live audience whom came in was not whom the person sought out to come but whom came held the most important messages. A medium does not control whom comes in most times, we can simply as for someone specific.

Lynn

[utopiandreamchild]

I would say be open to communication.

utopiandreamchild

[Native spirit]

What Lynn has said is so true we can not demand anyone to come through.


Namaste