It's it a spiritual lesson, development or will I get the balance in another life

[Guff779]

Editted post, sorry

[CosmicWonder]

Basically what I read is that you didn’t heal and grow past it. If you did, you might still seek answers. But when standing above it all and have grown past it and healed the wounds and even scars, then we can stand it all and we don’t feel hurt by it anymore. That’s the space where we can move on.

Ok that’s some spiritual teaching agreed on in my space. But let’s look at me.

I’ve worked for years to be able to love somebody again after years of trauma. And after all that, all I got is someone pointing me to deeper wounds (in a loving manner ofc). So she says, see, there’s even more work there. And then there is the next one pointing me to something. But it took years to be able to have that. And then still I’m not in a relationship yet.

See? It happens… life is actually loving you by not giving you what you can’t handle yet. And who knows? Maybe some day, after all that work, you find THE ONE. But I must say that it’s far more honorable for yourself (at least in my experience.) if you watch each step what you have achieved and being proud on that.

It’s ok to not be ready after years of trauma. It happens. After you became ready again, the next time around you got the lessons you have to deal with it. But let’s hope it was just one awful journey, and the next time it’s more roses…

Kind regards,

CW

[Guff779]

Thank you for your insights and this

[CosmicWonder]

It’s okay.

Sometimes we go through a lot. Please hear softness and kindness in my words, and not judgement or blame. Life can be tough on any of us. I surely believe this is your path and development.

Kind regards,

CW

[CosmicWonder]

Have you ever thought of doing some creative work? Like expressing yourself on paper or with music? Or pottery? Dancing? Acting? Writing? Maybe with some therapist? Or on your own?

Kind regards,

CW