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[Dadspirit]

Hello
Hello, my sister is mad at me and is asking my to leave the house and says bad things about me to her daughters. Her younger daughter hates me. Can you please pray that all the hate and biterness goes away and we can be a strong family again. I am out of the house now and sitting in my house with no where to go. We were extremely close to each other as our parents have passed away and we have no body except each other and no relatives to care about us.
Can you please please please pray that she will call and negativity and hate goes away tonight, so I can go home. Now is 7:30 EST.

Hi there , Maybe you should just go and talk to them

[lamb1]

I'm worried, is it any better?

[Aldous]

When me and my sister would argue, usually my brother would remind us that we were drunk.

[Gem]

I'm a benefit to my sister by doing all her yard work and different odd jobs on her house. I don't need or want anything from her and I don't get too involved in her life and family, so I won't become a burden in any way.

We are siblings, not friends. As such, we are stuck with each other for life, and I look after her by helping out, but she needs her own family space, so I just do the chores and leave. We don't need to talk or anything, and I rarely even go inside.

[Redchic12]

Dadspirit. Perhaps this is probably a good time to work on yourself and your neediness for you sister.

Usually when you “need” someone, as you seem to do, all it does is push them away further. But funny enough, when you learn to not need them, they come “thick and fast” into your life.

Maybe your sister is fed up with your neediness and needs a break from you as it’s wearing her down. So give her a break and leave her alone for awhile.

Maybe instead of praying for the negativity to go away you could pray for strength in learning how to deal with situations like this.

It seems to me this is a perfect time for you to grow and evolve and perhaps this is why you are placed in the position you are in now.

Instead of focusing all your attention on wanting things to be what you want with you sister, you could focus that energy on making YOUR life better, such as joining a club, sport, hobby, reading self help books and making new friends who enjoy doing the same things as you. PUSH yourself into doing something positive with your life that excludes your sister.

Forget your sister for awhile and focus on yourself and how to rely on yourself instead and not on your sister or anyone else. It’s not true that she is all you have. There are millions of people out there that you could have a close and mutually beneficial relationship with and probably more healthy and satisfying too.

Just my personal opinion tho.

[Native spirit]

I happen to agree with Redchic


Namaste

[OldChap]

Originally Posted by Dadspirit

Hello
Hello, my sister is mad at me and is asking my to leave the house and says bad things about me to her daughters. Her younger daughter hates me. Can you please pray that all the hate and biterness goes away and we can be a strong family again.

Love will overcome.

Knowing your sister is mad at you and one of her daughters hates you, do you best not to get your buttons pressed so easily and react negatively with worries, fear, and judgement. Continue to show them love and understanding. In time, they will come around and realize there is no reason to be mad at you or be hateful to you.

Before arriving here to be in the human form, we each chose the family we wanted to be in for many reasons.

Nothing is ever random, coincidental, lucky, or unlucky. Everything happens in our human life with the singular purpose of helping and guiding us to evolve and become better humans with more love, compassion, benevolence, and joy which are attributes of our true divine nature.

And if that process with your family members becomes too unbearable you can step aside briefly to take a breather, or if you like to completely walk away from them all.

But keep in mind, that situation was designed as a personal lesson for you (and also perhaps for your family members). Should you not find the embedded lesson and walk away without leaning, synchronicity will arrange another similar situation to come along to help you again.

And if you still have not found the embedded lesson in the subsequent situation, then each situation thereafter will be more and more stronger to make it easier for you to discover the personal lesson. Then sadly some might misunderstood them as punishment from God, or complain and blame about their lives being so miserable and unlucky not knowing all the situations were happening for their benefit.

All the best to you and your family members to be united again in love and joy!