I think she's nice but I don't know what's wrong :(

Originally Posted by SunMist

Hmmmm, just as an experiment try to be really assertive next time you talk with her and don't let her dominate the conversation and then see if you feel different. I've read that simply the act of giving someone your attention gives them energy and some people use that to get energy from others. Maybe through your attention you are giving away lots of energy to her? Another technique I've heard of is to just not give so much actual attention - in your mind focus on other things though if the other person senses this they'll think you are rude!

well I did talk to her today .. I came to her
the conversation didn't last for 5 minutes

Originally Posted by Sarian

My first thought was maybe she rambled and was boring, but you say you're not bored. I know for me, there are some people that talk and talk and I will get extremely fatigured feeling and have to stifle my yawns left and right. I thought it was maybe the way they talked, (like monotoned) or sometimes some people just aren't very good at communicating and it makes it almost painful to have to sit through and try to listen to them....I get really tired feeling.

no she's not boring .. she just make me feel very tired

Originally Posted by vulkus

Psy vamp.
Next time you are going to talk to her, consciously make an effort before hand to mentally check your own energy levels. Try to feel the fluctuations.
Does it go out fast, slow etc. How she talks to you.
When she leaves you, she feels great and that is why she always talks to you, because you uplift her.

Here is an easy technique, it is very simple to use.
While she is prattling on, breath in quite deeply but not audibly. As you breathe in fill your lungs with air, but feel the air displacing the energy that she is feeding off, then as you breathe out, imagine all the energy leaving your body and creating a vacuum. Don't be concerned where that energy goes it isn't important.
Make sure your breaths are long and even, not short and sharp.

I'm not going to tell you what you should feel, or how you should feel, what will happen. Because I don't want to set you up.
Let me know what happens, and if it isn't working we can modify it.

I did that today .. I didn't feel anything .. but she didn't want to continue to talk to me !! .. I'm not sure if is it because she's mad at me or something else
still feeling nothing is better than feeling tired
I wish the conversation last longer .. so I can see what will I feel exactly

She is annoyed because you have cut off her free energy source. Ppl who are psy vamps generally either can not self generate enough sustainable energy. Or are energy theives and literally steal it from you because they can.
But when you cut them off from their source, they get angry, annoyed, frustrated and often act out by vocalising feelings of being slighted or guilt ridden statements.

Try not to focus on what you are feeling because that isn't the point. The point is reducing the amount of outgoing energy such that it leaves you drained.

Originally Posted by vulkus

Just a note: Any information I give that cites a technique is unique to the person I have written it for. This means that while you may attempt it, it will not work for you in the way I have outlined, this is because it is person specific.
How can this be done you may ask, well don't bother asking as I will not reveal the way it is done.

Yes it will be handing it over on a silver platter it is the whole point of the exercise. Have you ever heard of the saying, you catch more flies with honey?
The whole point of the reply was to check and see what is going out and where. Once you know how and where it is going out you can remedy that situation.

shielding is a pointless waste of time, a psy vamp will suck the life out of what ever you are using to power your shields.
That and shielding in general is not something that should be relied upon for everything.
Etherial shielding is exactly like a shield that a swordsman would use. If all I ever used was my shield I would get awefully tired defending all the time, OK yes you can attack with a shield but it is energy sapping and not very efficient.
You use a shield for pushing back to put a person off balance, for sweeping attacks out of the way, to deflect a blow and to use the edge for a winding strike. But just like all these shield techniques you need an offensive weapon to get the maximum value from the use of a shield.

Etherial/astral/energetic shields aren't technically shields at all. They are encompassing spheres or bubbles. They have a technical function but and are the very first thing you should learn how to form, create and maintain. But once you have learned this, you need to learn how to put them on auto.

I won't bore you with the details of how correct shielding is initiated as it is irrelevant to this post.

Yes I am well aware of how shielding works in detail particularly in relation to psyvamps....I'm glad your technique has helped the OP. I also find when I'm doing a successful technique they quickly lose interest and don't want to interact with me for as long.

I am glad to hear this SunMist. You would be surprised to learn how many ppl think shields are the be all and end all of everything, and that many don't know an iota about true shielding techniques.