A False Twin

Has anyone ever heard of the "false twin"?

It is where your current mate will mold themselves into what is required to hold onto you. However, if you were to leave them they would probably be doing something entirely different according to whoever they are in physical relationship with. They also end up parroting the real Twin (if they know them or about them) to try to hold onto the relationship. I read about this once and I believe my husband is trying to be a "false twin" right now as the divorce approaches. He is trying way to hard to hold onto the physical relationship that is not soul based.

My research shows that a false twin flame will be threatened by your real twin flame. A real twin flame is said to be a "creative match" to the other twin. The false twin is said to lack the depth of a real twin flame.

Have any of you had any experience with a false twin?

[undomiel_perian]

Originally Posted by Lightworker42

Has anyone ever heard of the "false twin"?

It is where your current mate will mold themselves into what is required to hold onto you. However, if you were to leave them they would probably be doing something entirely different according to whoever they are in physical relationship with. They also end up parroting the real Twin (if they know them or about them) to try to hold onto the relationship. I read about this once and I believe my husband is trying to be a "false twin" right now as the divorce approaches. He is trying way to hard to hold onto the physical relationship that is not soul based.

My research shows that a false twin flame will be threatened by your real twin flame. A real twin flame is said to be a "creative match" to the other twin. The false twin is said to lack the depth of a real twin flame.

Have any of you had any experience with a false twin?

I believe I may have had a false twin. I'm exactly sure though. I can relate to what you stated above. One of my ex-boyfriends was threatened by my twin. This was even before I realized the feelings had for my twin. When I told him about my twin, he tried to hold on the relationship although it was over and had been for quite sometime. There were other reasons of course why I ended it with my ex.

[Kaere]

Originally Posted by Lightworker42

Has anyone ever heard of the "false twin"?

It is where your current mate will mold themselves into what is required to hold onto you. However, if you were to leave them they would probably be doing something entirely different according to whoever they are in physical relationship with. They also end up parroting the real Twin (if they know them or about them) to try to hold onto the relationship. I read about this once and I believe my husband is trying to be a "false twin" right now as the divorce approaches. He is trying way to hard to hold onto the physical relationship that is not soul based.

My research shows that a false twin flame will be threatened by your real twin flame. A real twin flame is said to be a "creative match" to the other twin. The false twin is said to lack the depth of a real twin flame.

Have any of you had any experience with a false twin?

False twin?? Maybe he just loves you and values your marriage. It is possible, y'know. Just because it isn't 'soul based' from your perspective, it most likely is 'soul based' from his perspective.

A little compassion and less analyzing might make things easier on him as you go your own way. He's not a number, after all.

[gypsymystique]

I suppose I could call my ex-husband this.

Originally Posted by Kaere

False twin?? Maybe he just loves you and values your marriage. It is possible, y'know. Just because it isn't 'soul based' from your perspective, it most likely is 'soul based' from his perspective.

A little compassion and less analyzing might make things easier on him as you go your own way. He's not a number, after all.

Love doesn't lie, cheat, or use others. He is guilty of all 3!! People who value marriage show such value by their actions. :-) So, right now, he IS being a false twin in my opinion. He knows how to respond in "crisis mode". He always does until the crisis is over. It is not "soul based" becasue he doesn't know my soul. Twin knows me and we have only known each other 3 years almost. Hubby and I have been together 11 years and I am emotionally neglected. He is good providing physically. He is physically motivated. He can't tell you my heart though because he never really listens. :-)

Also, it would be nice if you FIRST ask me if I have had compassion with him. Please don't TELL ME to do something prior to asking if it has been done. Remember, only I know the details here. Based on my research AND his behavior, I think he is being a false twin at the moment. All I wanted to know was if anyone else has heard of the concept to which you didn't answer that question at all. :-)

[Kiwigirl11]

I still hate all the labelling,false twin ,neartwin ,fartwin ,twin flames ,twinsouls,balancing partners ahhhhh...no wonder so many of us feel like we are going crazy ,everything seem to have to have a label these days...Why is that ?? ....i prefer to call most of my past relationships/friendships lessons learnt and i have had a few of those ....Once you drop all labels it's amazing how much easier things become :)

[Kaere]

Originally Posted by Lightworker42

Love doesn't lie, cheat, or use others. He is guilty of all 3!! So, right now, he IS being a false twin in my opinion. He knows how to respond in "crisis mode". He always does until the crisis is over. It is not "soul based" becasue he doesn't know my soul. Twin knows me and we have only known each other 3 years almost. Hubby and I have been together 11 years and I am emotionally neglected. He is good providing physically. He is physically motivated. He can't tell you my heart though because he never really listens. :-)

Also, it would be nice if you FIRST ask me if I have had compassion with him. Please don't TELL ME to do something prior to asking if it has been done. Remember, only I know the details here. Based on my research AND his behavior, I think he is being a false twin at the moment. All I wanted to know was if anyone else has heard of the concept to which you didn't answer that question at all. :-)

If he's treated you that poorly, why are you concerned about or trying to figure out what he is to you at all?

I did not TELL you to do anything, I suggested.

False twin concept - yes, I've heard of it. I also think labeling of any kind is the wrong way to go... pigeon holing is for files, not people.

If he's your false twin, does this change anything? Will it make a difference to your life?

[jim78]

False twins need a good puk in the mouth for wasting peoples time in my opinion.

[Impulsv]

If anything whatever exhusbby did was to prepare you for real tf. We must always respect all connections not saying you don't. But if he is fake tf then I've read they show up before meeting tf. Perhaps fake tf had to be this way per soul contract so that leaving would come easier to you. So yes have compassion not saying you don't.

[jim78]

Yeah but what if the false twin refuses to get out of a tfs life?