Which is soul mate which is twin flame and who am I supposed to be with

[Meiotribe318]

OK so around seven years ago I had a dark night of the soul and met my twin. During the separation process I met another woman who resembled my twin a lot. My twin has fair wavy hair and green eyes and is a little on the chubby side and this other woman is sleek (for a lack of a better word) with straight dark hair and doe eyes which are blue. This other woman is taller and thinner than my twin, but they are very alike. It's the whole aura that they both exude, elegant, feminine, special, clever. Now I'm pretty sure who is my twin the chubby one and the other is a close twin they are so alike. I just wonder who I'm supposed to be with because me and my twin are still in separation and I feel like it will remain this way for a long time and I also know many twin flames aren't meant to be a romantic connection. The other woman is also not currently in contact with me because I havent actually met her I just see her in visions and dreams. I have started 2021 with manifesting many things and one of them is a relationship. But as you can see here I don't know who to manifest/attract. My relationship with my twin is wrought with a lot of pain although we love each other but because of many things out of our control we cannot be together. Anyway I would appreciate it if someone could do some energy or reiki reading for me and tell me who I'm supposed to end up with in life. Thanks so much to anyone who responds and reads.

As I see it, the danger of manifesting a relationship using visualisation/affirmation, call it LoA if you want, is that it'll come with expectations and with them comes expectation bias.

Nothing wrong with trying to attract a person who meets your needs but on encountering someone who partially meets them there's the tendency to dismiss features that don't conform in other ways as if they'll get sorted out later.

Inevitably people tend to behave themselves during early dates - they don't want to present themselves in a bad light so there's more inclination to like what the prospect does and agree with their views, avoiding strong opinions but there comes a time when each one's real "you" emerges. Hopefully those real selves will still match enough to make a contented relationship.

Real twin flames are a rarity as far as I can see. Few people naturally fall into the requirements as far as traditions go. Over the years it's become a label for a couple who initially get on very well and believe they're meant to be together across eternity - a commitment far deeper than, say, marriage. This separation idea seems more about propaganda to avoid discrediting the concept than admitting it didn't work out. So one asks 'how long are you going to wait around frittering your life here in the hope the exponents are right and there'll be a reunion?'

A reunion in the next life or the one after that or the one after that? If you believe in reincarnation, fine, but that's a belief only. It comes with a few issues, like how you'll recognise yourself in a future life; how you won't find out you were wrong then. I mean, there could be future lives but it's unlikely the you-ness about you (what people here call the ego) will remain the same as you'd be birthed into different circumstances with correspondingly different development.

Well, I can't do the readings you want but my suggestion is that you should get out and around, meet people relying initially on whether someone attracts you or not and if you date, have no expectations. Be interested, let them be themselves. As I've said often here, you'll meet couples who have been together a lifetime, are inseparable but have never heard the term "twin flame."
Good luck.

[Kaytee]

Be careful with this route. It's not wise to force these types of things with reiki. This should only be used as a last resort as relationships should be formed naturally.