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Originally Posted by hazada guess
I talk from my own experience, if that tallies with eastern religion, fair enough. If it doesn't then who is fabricating?
Anyone can talk the talk if it sounds believable.
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And make fun/bad about false believers?
The word Fool, is not mocking, but a way of saying "not knowing what they are really doing/acting and it's effects". It's not a wrong image creation, but knocking the head.
To not be a fool, is what the core, and praying for that. It's like Dad teaching Son "Foolish action, don't behave such way, it's for your good".
If something not suits you, don't drag others down in name of Fun. I don't make Fun of a man named Sadhguru here in Tamilnadu too, though he acts as a fool and make a big group of fools for name and fame. Praying everyone to reach God/Truth in any manner and be never ignorant.
I never engaged in any other thread or mocked them down, as it doesn't suit me. People want fun and let them go. But, sometimes much attached to people like Nobody,Paul,etc., makes me open up to them to not be such, you deserve more and you can and not let fall. I have to somehow get rid off this attachment and never come gain, but don't know why I am doing that. But, never I made fun of anyone, as I know what is "hurt" in name of "Fun" - what is "Not Love". And so I used those words as "Fool" to be not such way (including myself as a reminder).
It's a big challenge for me to not come again and break that attachment, but I will try my best.
Edit - Importantly, I'm very dumb in Communication. I don't understand people's emotions in the indirect way of Communication. As I couldn't understand them, I hope for a direct way like "Shut your Mouth, Speak not this nonsense to me, I don't like this behaviour - go away, Stop Mailing me - nothing important hearing from you though it might look important for you" as I am very ignorant of indirect means. I don't understand why making fun, a big doubt happens "Do they want me to stop, or they want more fun in mocking me and want me to be around", and many more doubts. That's why I'm very weak with Women being Dumb. I seek direct communications, because that's what makes me decide to continue or not, and indirect or Silence make me create much doubts.
I was keep on messaging with a woman who attracted to me but moved away later on, as she many times attend call but remained silent. I never understood why she did like that. Only when she directly said me what are all the issues and what she tried to do, I understood it and stopped it. I am very weak in Implied/intrinsic meanings in actions. I unconsciously hurt people in such misunderstandings/doubts too. Communicating openly what they want from me, would be better for me to rightly decide once and for all. I welcome any bad image/words upon me, it's better than indirect polished way for a dumb guy like me to rightly decide and move on.
I don't know how much better I can express what is in my mind. And so I prefer silence in all my surroundings now (except in sharing few deep learning I got with those spiritually/mindfully attached persons), and hoping for a direct reply from them too and aware of the effects of my actions and people's needs and do accordingly, and mostly remain silent and stay away from their needs too, and not act like a Fool.