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Old 10-12-2022, 01:05 PM
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Originally Posted by Redchic12
Yes thatís true, it DOES work cos Iíve been doing it all my life.

I've only just begun using it so I can't vouch for it personally, although, on the odd occasion when I've been thinking very deeply about something it has manifested. Mostly answers to my spiritual questions. It's quite brilliant really.
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Old 10-12-2022, 04:08 PM
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Good idea Peteyzen. Maybe take on a rental place for a week or two in the area you like and go from there.

I was in place for 7 years (thatís long for me) and I started feeling like you. Then I read book which explained that humans are like plants ie when they start wilting and showing signs of distress, itís TIME TO REPOT OR MOVE TO A DIFFERENT PLACE IN THE GARDEN.

So I thought YES itís time to repot.
And the second thought was AIRPORT!!!!!

But thatís just me. I get an idea in my head and then Iím off. No ifs and buts just gone.

But funny enough everything has worked out fine.

You may have different circumstances than me, but whatever it is, you definitely need a change. Maybe even just ONE change can make a difference such as a new hobby where you are meeting new people. That can make a huge difference.

Hope something happens for you soon.
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Old 10-12-2022, 08:32 PM
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These times are when others like my self would be more than happy to trade for the rain.. I live in a place where it drizzles close to the sea- so rain would be welcomed!!!

Try fix on the good things; a relationship and job ect
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Old 11-12-2022, 08:42 PM
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When you find yourself in a situation such as this. try and immerse yourself in clubs or something , somewhere you can help make a difference
I have always said all my life that I should not have been born in the country that I reside in.
I knew I couldn't do anything about it so I joined the council for my area where i could help make it a better place.
I have been on the council now for over 20 years, many things have changed for the better we meet every month there are 14 of us.
and by seeing the joy the changes have made to the youth and the elderly.it makes you feel better also


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Old 12-12-2022, 06:10 AM
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Re. Native Spirit

Aww lovely comments. I really admire people like you, who actually make a difference to people and places.

The unsung heroís in my book!!!
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Old 13-12-2022, 03:39 PM
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I'd like to share how I recently got out of that funk. I can't move away for reasons, other than relationship.

I've been in a similar situation for years on end.
My entire adult life I've lived in places where I didn't feel I belonged (I'm 56). Mostly more religious environments, which absolutely doesn't resonate with me at all, and people with different mentality and way of being and socialising than what I'm used to.
People in my province of birth are warm, open, welcoming, friendly and for some reason I keep ending up in provinces / areas / towns where people are distant, keep to themselves, aren't very open and welcoming etc. To me they feel cold and aloof.

I've often wondered why the hell I keep ending up in such places, trying my best to be happy, to make friends, but failing every time. I've lived in my current area for 19 yrs now -in 2 different villages- and I know a ton of people, but I haven't got one single friend. No social life. It just doesn't work, no resonance whatsoever.
The only friends I've had during this long time were people that happened to be from my province of birth, and because they experienced the same problems as me they moved back to our shared province of birth.
The same happened in my young adult years in another area I was living then, people moving away because they couldn't settle and feel at home there.

Yet, somehow something inside of me recently changed after I'd decided to have my old wooden garage done up a few months back. I have a council house that happens to come with a driveway and said garage. It direly needed repair lest it wouldn't collapse at some point during a storm.
But in spite of its state, during the 10 yrs I've lived here I kept thinking, "By the time it really needs to be done up I'm long gone from here!" The longing to pack up and leave this place & area behind always in the foreground.
But then I had to have it fixed to save it as it had gotten too bad.
And oddly enough that has made me feel way more at home here than I've ever felt?!
The renovation took a lot of money and time, it's done now. And with that it feels as if I've now finally finally landed here! Finally this is now my home.
I even had the handyman come back to put up mesh fencing along my driveway and when it was done I ordered strings of solar lights to put through it. It makes me so happy to see this beautiful garage, MY garage, and MY driveway with those cute strings of lights!
That finished touch, the fencing with lights, added to my feeling "This is MINE! MY home!!!"

And you know what changed? The only thing that changed... I ACCEPTED that I was, am, and will be living here!
I got out of resistance of not liking it here, not liking the people, not even liking being close to the beach and ocean (I prefer woods), wanting to leave as soon as possible, and being P-O with fate for putting me in this situation.
That mindset had kept me out of 'landing' and anchoring, and making this my home, and feeling at home.

It still isn't the area that really suits me, but in spite of that I now do feel "This is my home" even if that only pertains to my house & premises.
All that, a huge 360 degree shift, because of making an investment (time, money, energy) in a garage & driveway...
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Old 13-12-2022, 03:55 PM
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Wow! FairyCrystal that's major life-changing stuff! Glad to know you now feel at home.
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Old 13-12-2022, 04:02 PM
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Thank you, CatsMeow!!
I was just thinking... what caused the change was the fact I made an investment, not just financial, but mostly emotional. I really put love into it by my vision of what the done up garage & driveway would look like, I took time to paint it the colour I love and with each part I painted my joy grew.
I'm even thinking of making a name sign for my garage and put that up on the front, hihi. It'd be "The Red Barn".

The emotional investment and taking of emotional responsibility created the feeling of "mine" and "belonging".
That's what shifted it and brought the acceptance.
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Old 13-12-2022, 04:32 PM
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Love conquers all, that's what they say.

You should have a garage warming party and invite some of your neighbours.
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Old 14-12-2022, 11:47 AM
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That would be a great idea, hihi.
If it was easy and not too expensive to completely insulate it so I could heat it as well, as I'd love to give workshops in there. But that would costs a bomb. New doors etc. too.
Oh well, I can still dream about that, haha.
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